I have fallen for a girl and am deeply in love with her
She's let me know that she feels the same way too, but she can't understand why?
she is pregnant by another man and can't understand why i want to be with her
He has told her that he has no interest in his child-to-be, that he has a girlfriend and wants to have children with her.......
what can i say to her to reassure her
and what do you think the outcomes will be ?
2006-06-25 11:34:36 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Insecurity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be there for her and let her know how much you love her. If you feel she is the woman for you maybe consider getting her a promise ring or engagement ring to let her know you are really serious.
The outcome looks good since everyone has been honest with eachother. You already know what you are getting into - so theres no surprises. As long as you both love eachother and you love her child you have the potential to be a great husband and father. Good luck!
2006-06-25 11:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
to love someone pregnant w/someone elses baby is a big thing and is sure to be a tough road ahead the girl probably knows this.the father of the baby may at any time decide to be a father after all and that something you will have to assure her you understand unless he signs his rights away.either way you will have to love the baby as your own if you love her like you say you do-its a package deal i guess you could say-reassure her of your love for her and the unborn.every woman wants there children to be loved by the man in their life but it is sometimes a hard thing to do. good luck
2006-06-25 11:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a real man to raise another man's child. It's not the child's fault that his biological father is a loser. I think it's great myself. You can never be his father, but you can be his "daddy".
Now if she accepts that you want to raise this child, then that's cool. If she doesn't, then she's losing a good thing. She really needs to realize that there aren't alot of good men out there, especially her sperm donor ex.....so she better take the one that she's got now, or that chance my never come again. If you do stay together, just raise that child as your own....and you'll never go wrong with that. Best of luck to you.........
2006-06-25 12:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In many cases this works out wonderfully for all 3 people involved......the man, the woman, and the baby. The man really loves the woman or he wouldn't do it in the first place, the woman responds to being loved that much, and loves him back, and baby gets love and care from both ........win-win, and win!
2006-06-25 11:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult but achievable with yolu both,my main concern is for the unborn child and it will at times to raise him or her as your own and io know from past experiences at som e he or she will say your not my dad etc and maybe the childs biological father will want contact.it wont be easy but in 90% o cases everything works out well
good luck mike
2006-06-25 11:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by listener06y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it real mate.....be a friend ...if you love.her
dont **** her up.AND dont let her **** you up..
2006-06-25 11:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by El Mariachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋