why do men like the dumb girls more?

Question

if this offends any men im sorry but im really pissed right now and not thinking. why do men act so evil sometimes? the boys at school i dont think they like me, they always go for the girls who sleep around with guys and are sluts and really skinny and dumb!!! why is this? im a smart girl, im really shy and i dont talk much and i havent lost my virginity yet i think im a good person but why wont boys talk to me? its like there not even giving me the time of day do i have to be a slut to so they will like me?

Answer 1

insecurity.

Answer 2

Boys like dumb girls because boys just want to have sex because their hormones are going crazy and their emotional centers aren't fully developed yet. Boys will pretend to like you (for a little while) if they think you're a slut that puts out. Men like to date smart girls. Men like to score with dumb girls and dump them.

Guys will not approach a girl they think is sad or depressed. A smile goes a long way. Try a "hi" and a smile once in a while. Some boys in your school might be shy too. I was shy once many moons ago (of course no one who knows me now believes that statement). Then one day I realized that the things I most regretted the most were the things I didn't try.

Give it time. You don't want to be a girl who needs a boyfriend to be happy. They are usually old and single (or divorced) and will probably die old and alone unless they find a possessive psycho guy that likes that kind of thing.

Answer 3

You are at a very confussing age right now. At this age youg people have all the looks and feelings of adults and have not figured out what to do about them yet. Unfortuninatly Parents usually don't know what to say to their teens and other adult figures in their lives don't feel that it is their place. Therefor, most of what is learned about being an adult is learned from some media mogul tring to make a dollar. So teen males act out what they see, thinking it's the way they are supposed to act. As for the dumb girls getting all the action, that is because they are not smart enough to know that their actions will effect the rest of their lives. Don't loose heart, most men actually do get a clue eventually. Don't ever pretend to be someone that you are not. If you do then the person that is right for you will never be able to find you.

Answer 4

First of all sex isn't a dirty thing and no one deserves the title slut. Guys don't necessarily like the "dumb" girls more. That's usually an attraction towards innocence not ignorance. The reason they're not giving you the time of day is because you "want" them to. To "want" is to display a since of incompleteness or lack of self confidence. Lack of self confidence will drive anyone away from wanting to experience you. I would suggest being comfortable in your own skin first. Know that you don't need any specific person or condition in your life in order to be happy, all you need is you. You are whole and complete all by yourself. Never focus on lack, for this empowers the feeling of lack and in turn, continues to create repeat experiences of it. Focus on wonderful possibilities. These too will come to pass. Your thoughts are pure energy. Be careful what you energize. Just love the person you are completely and always strive to leave behind a good example, and the rest of your life will fall into place.

Answer 5

The R probably afraid that they'll get turned down by U, or maybe they just don't know U. What people don't know they tend to stay away from!

Dumb skanks er, girls are better because they are less likely to find out that the guy is screwing some other dumb girl. That and U have to be more outgoing maybe go out w/a friend of yours that has a boyfriend who has a friend......

U get da picture? Association is the best way to meet someone w/o being on the spot cuz your friend will B there...

Answer 6

Honey, you just haven't met the right ones yet. The ones who expect you to act dumb are not worthy of you. They are just insecure morans who are afraid of your intelligence. Sounds like you are still at the age when many boys are not socially able to know how to converse with a smart girl like you. Wait awhile..you'll meet some real winners in college...and sounds like you are going to get to college since you are really smart but not sleeping around! All the best

Answer 7

At these ages that you're talking about most guys are giving their attention to the loose girls because that is where they get their kicks---but --the smart ones will in time come around to the focus that those are not the girls they are going to want for wives and long term relationships--they're simply the party girls---with some patients you will find the guys coming around soon enough--and it is the quality they will be searching for--and that's what you will have to offer----best of luck to you

Answer 8

Never change your beliefs to suit the wants or others, even society. Not all boys/men are immoral beings. You just have to hang in there and do the best you can, as you have always done. Just remember, men don't marry the skanky ones, they don't want sl*ts to be the mothers of their children. A person of virtue is always attractive. Sometimes you have to believe in yourself. if you give in, what do you gain? STDs, a bad reputation, etc. What do you lose if you give in: your self respect, who you really are---in short, you will lose yourself. I think people like you are far to valuable and precious to lose. Be strong, get involved, get a job...be true to YOUR dreams.

Answer 9

I think you just answered your own question. All guys think about is gettin some. So of course their going to go for the girls that are putting it out there. You don't need to be like them to get a man. If thats all they are interested in then I don't think that thats the kind of guy you want anyways. Just remember good things come to those who wait. So just keep being respectful of your self and your body and one day you will meet some guy who is worthy of you.

Answer 10

Girls and boys are so much different when they are young that real communication is almost imposable.All young people pretend to "Get it" in a conversation so the differences don't seem as big as they are.A boy is reacting to hormones and he doesn't know how to react to an 'Intelligent" conversation with a girl.unless she is talking about how to "LAY" a girl,of course this is not what you mean. Just wait for the right guy ,God has one in Mind for you

Answer 11

men choose dumb girls because they can play with them more easily. but only dumb men choose dumb girls. u need a man with a higher level of maturity and who will respect you and your decisions in life. you havent lost your virginity, and that's something good. you shouldnt be worried about that. cheer up! u are a woman of worth and nobody should treat like you dont have a place in the world of relationships.