Masturbation is ho hum, vibrators are not soft enough. I read that some women cannot achieve orgasim because they do not have enough nerve endings in their vagina/clitoris. Is there medical proof of this? Is there a test I can have done in a doctor's office?
2006-06-25 11:17:09 · 11 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's actually extremely common for women to have a hard time acheiving orgasm. Here are some of the possible reasons:
1. You may have some dirt underneath the clitoral hood, which can cause an irritation. Happens all the time, just clean it out with water really well.
2. There may be some membranes attatching your clitoris and the clitoral hood, causing less movement of the hood over your clitoris (and thus less stimulation). This can be detected by your doctor and removed with a dull probe in an office procedure, if you only ask.
3. Sexual or emotional trauma from the past can affect your ability to orgasm.
4. Otherwise, it is either a matter of not stimulating the area in a way you like for long enough, or you not "letting yourself go," or "trying too hard." Mental state is as important as physical, but orgasm is easiest if you stimulate the clitorus in a way you really like for a long time.
2006-06-25 11:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ranavain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried the style that enter more than one cavity, and stimulate the g spot at the same time? Have you tried masturbation in front of him? Have you tried mutual masturbation where you switch every so often and masturbate each other. Have you tried ben wa balls during sex. There are erection rings that have clitoral stimulating vibrators built in so you get the best of both worlds. I'm not certain whether your ob/gyn can test the sensitivity/nerve ending abundance in your vagina or clitoris, but you certainly should address the issue with them, as it may be some type of medical condition that is causing neuropathy in the area.
Good Luck
2006-06-25 11:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about tests, and I'm a guy, so I might not know what I'm talking about, but I'll give you a suggestion. You might want to try some variations. Like maybe using a vibrator during sex. And as for vibrators, you might want to look for different kinds. www.goodvibrations.com has a wide variety. They come in different shapes, textures, and they even have rubber duckies! Hope this helps, and good luck!
Also, ginko biloba is supposed to increase circulation and therefore stimulation.
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2006-06-25 11:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by MANIACFROM CHI TOWN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your male partner needs to be very patient, and help you to relax. Being too tense generally can make it difficult or impossible to achieve orgasm. Think: a good long body massage (you pick the oil or lotion you like best and keep it at your bedside, don't make him choose one); lots of foreplay, and don't be in a hurry!
2006-06-25 11:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the woman. some woman can have an orgasm very quickly...i kno this b/c ive witnessed it. some woman just cant becuase their G spot is hidden
2006-06-25 11:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Chris R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-25 11:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your Gynocologist or view this sitehttp://www.sogc.org/health/health-myths_e.asp
2006-06-25 11:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by NEED 2 KNOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have topical cream you can get over the counter that will increase sensitivity and it works
2006-06-25 11:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋