i wana change no one likes my personality because i am rude how can i change its hard?

Question

its really hard i want to but i cant please answer me now ,i have to know now please!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 1

Um, the way you asked this question is half of your problem right there, dear.

The best way to change your rude habits are to become more aware of them. Every time someone is annoyed or hurt by something you have said, take note. Write it down then focus on coming up w/a way to avoid repeating such an offense again in the future & learn to appologize nicely for them, in a genuin mannor, too. When ppl see that you are willing to own your mistakes & make retrobution for them, they will respect you more & eventually their opinion of you will change.

Also, it couldn't hurt to check out some books on etiquette. Everything from conversational etiquette, to public etiquette. Learn some new manners :)

A good sure fire way to avoid being seen is rude is to learn to THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK & to KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT :)

Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

Sometimes its hard to be a pleasant person on the outside when there is a monster ragging on the inside. Only you can determine this. If something is bothering you, go see a counselor.

Answer 3

u don't have to be rude just take it easy and smile and think positive about ur self. being rude no one like it. just smile to everyone and u will be okay. try to think before acting. good luck email me if u have eny other Q.

Answer 4

You just think about what you say before you say it. You no the saying "if you can't say anything nice then don't say nothing at all."

Answer 5

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