for sex, but it seems like the only time the sex is really good is when I take her out & make her happy. My question is, DOES FREE SEX REALLY EXIST.
2006-06-25 10:31:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women need romance to help get in the mood sometimes. You are not paying for sex...you are paying to keep your relationship with your wife good. Some women, especially after having kids, have troube getting in the mood. This could be why the only time you have so called good sex, is when you take your wife out!
2006-06-25 10:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Heather R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you guys are having a rough patch. I know when i am not happy with my husband the sex sucks for me because i am not happy. She may be using material things to bring her up while she is down. I would get to the route of the problem. Yes free sex does exist i have awesome sex with my husband when iam happy and i don't need a present or a dinner to do that i just look at him and want to get nasty. LOL.
2006-06-25 17:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by blondiebella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
free sex doesn't exist because even when dating u have to take a girl out and so u pay for stuff and then u have sex so either way u think about it u are paying for sex it is just how it works
2006-06-25 22:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by kelbel73183 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your wife! you should be taking her out and making her happy...what exactly are you bitching about? if you got married for free sex you were way off base. and if you didn't think the sex was good why did you marry her in the first place? looks to me like when you go the extra mile to make her feel special she returns the favor, and when you don't she doesn't either...so what is the problem? you are getting as good as what you are giving is, you can't possibly complain about that. what you seem to be saying is that you want her to go all out to please you without doing anything for her...does that sound right to you?
2006-06-25 17:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in life is free. If you make your wife feel good about herself she in return will make your love life good. Marriage is 50/50. Most women will give it their all if they are treated special. Women like to be romanced and made to feel they are the most important person in your life. The old saying "If momma ain't happy then no one is happy". You taking your wife out to dinner is a small price to pay for her cooking, cleaning, taking care of you and the kids and entertaining your friends. So if you want a great sex life make your wife feel special.
2006-06-25 18:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the old saying goes " you have to give to receive" It goes both ways. Love is free, but sex is an entirely different subject. I love my husband but i don't always want it when he does and he doesn't like spending money like i do, so we both compromise, I love on him, and i get to go shopping. He doesn't always want it when i do, but he never turns it down, because it's "on the house", find a woman that gives at your beck and call and i will be amazed.
2006-06-25 17:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Theresa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are paying for sex even though you are married. You make the money, she spends it.
2006-06-25 17:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain buddy..., When it comes to sex, woman will always win, cause they controls the tempo, if you try otherwise then you be rapist/pervert etc.
In theory free sex do exist (In women's eye) but in reality NO, free sex does not exist.
2006-06-25 18:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by frustration 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women need affection. Not just sex.
Maybe the sex is good when you take her out because you don't show her affection any other way.
2006-06-25 17:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by ashez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your problem? Every woman loves to be seduced, if you can't afford dinner then find new ways to romance her and seduce her. If you feel like your paying for sex I wonder what she feels like?????
2006-06-25 17:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by divaterry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋