Is it safe to have sex with a women when she is about 8 months gone, also if so what are the best position and any precausions i should take.
2006-06-25 10:29:36 · 20 answers · asked by spud 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ABSOLUTELY!!!! (unless she has complications and doc has said no) i did through both of my pregnancies, and every position i could get into was ok by me. bang away, cause doc will tell you you have to wait 6 weeks after baby comes (but i only waited 4)! really the only thing you should avoid is in the water because it can push up into the uterus and cause infection or problems.
congrats on the little one about to come!
2006-06-26 11:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by jamminursite 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Yes it is safe, a comfortable position is lying behind her entering from behind, this wont put any pressure on her stoomach and isnt too tiring for her.
There is no evidence that healthy sex is dangerous. Personally I was more horny when I was pregnant!
However it is proven that sex very late on can bring on labour. However at 8 months the baby is considered full term, well anythink from 38 weeks.
Just go easy - no difficult positions etc and have fun!
Once that baby comes you wont feel like it for a while - you'll be too busy sleeping!
2006-06-25 17:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Its usually not safe after the 3rd trimester, meaning the last 3 months of pregnancy. This is because an orgasm could trigger her going into labor. Best to wait a few months until after she's had the child and is fully healed
2006-06-25 17:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Iverson*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is safe to have sex when a women is heavily pregnant the best possition is really up to the women ,the most comfortest to her perhaps with her layed on her side and you enter her from behind this is relaxing and you both get pleasure from sex without pain or discomfort good luck
2006-06-25 18:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like others say, talk to your ob/gyn.
If she hasn't had any troubles so far then sounds like she can have sex as long as it's not rough sex.
When I was pregnant my favorite possition was on top because I could control the movement to where I felt comfortable and my stomach wasn't in the way, my husbands favorite was sideways, again I was in front and he was behind me. By the way he says I'm sexiest when I am pregnant, and he says the same thing when he sees other pregnant people. He says we glow !!
http://kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_newborn/pregnancy/sex_pregnancy.html
2006-06-25 17:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally fine. In fact having sex past the due date is one of the best ways of bringing on labour (recommended in Friends)!!
I know many of my male friends who had pregnant partners were concerned. It is not unusual to be concerned on the "safety" of making love at such a special time.
Check out the link for helpful guidance.
Good luck for the impending birth!
2006-06-25 17:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah, it's safe actually.it will somewhat easy to the woman to give birth if she had sex while she's pregnant.(to avoid ceasarian section, you know.)but ask the doctor first...coz sometimes some women have sensitive pregnancies, and are required to be bedridden so talk to the doctor first. about positions...well it depends on you guys what's the comfortable position as long as you won't be on top of her tummy...and as long as she can handle it.well, she's quite heavy these times but the experience will give benefits.
2006-06-25 17:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by jayferlou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all depends on your mood and what your doctor has to say. Otherwise, i is okay to have sex at 8 mos along, you just need to adjust for the big belly. just make sure your partner goes easy, and takes care. if it feels good, then keep going. side laying, doggiestyle, you on top are all good positions that do not leave stress on the belly.
2006-06-25 17:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by justonemore_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience, yes, some doctors actually encourage it around the due date to get that baby moving along with walking, but it really depends on how comfy Mom is with the idea, doggy style is nice and of course missionary
2006-06-25 17:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Raw Dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah as long you dont smother the baby while you are doing that act. It is completely normal and ok, you will not hurt the baby and they will not remember either. try the position like when you are spooning, that way both of you are as comfortable as possible.
2006-06-25 17:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋