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Who has had or known someone with postpartim depression, and how did it express? I want to show my husband who hasn't known me long that I am not crazy. Please share your stories. Yes I am treating this. Thanks

Answer 1

I had it. I wanted to sleep all day, and I cried all the time. It can go on months after you have the baby. Nothing my husband would do could please me. I'd had just as soon he leave. It's not uncommon, and you are not crazy. Having a baby is a stressful event on your body and your mind.

Answer 2

Here's some information that might help educate your husband on ppd.

She needs to talk to her doctor immediately. She does not need to suffer for no reason, and post natal depression is nothing for her to be ashamed of. After pregnancy, a woman's hormones are all out-of-wack and sometimes when a doctor prescribes a certain medication, they can realign themselves, so to speak.

When the baby blues just won't fade, chances are it is post natal depression.

Postnatal depression is fairly common, affecting about 10 to 20 percent of women.

Postnatal depression can last from a few weeks to a year or more. It may begin at birth, but more often not until a month or two later

The symptoms of PPD are crying and irritability, sleep problems, eating problems, persistant feelings of sadness, hopelessess and helplessness, an inability to take care of yourself or your newborn, and memory loss.

Call your doctor and ask for a thryroid test, since irregularities in thyroid hormone levels can lead to emotional instability, this is usually one of the first steps taken when evaluating post partum depression. If your thyroid levels check out normally, ask for a referral to a therapist who has clinical background in the treatment of post natal depression, and make an appointment ASAP.

Antidepressents, combined with counselling can help you feel better fast and there are several that are safe even if you're breastfeeding.

Bright light therapy may also bring relief from the symptoms of PPD and can be used instead of or in addition to medicine.

Whichever route you and your therapist decide is right for you, keep in mind taht swift intervention is crucial. Without it, depression can prevent you from bonding with, caring for and enjoying your baby. It can also have a devestating effect on other relationships in your life, as well as on your own health and well-being.

Answer 3

I have gone through it once out of 5 children , and I expressed , alot of depression , there was times I felt like my child didn't love me , that I was unattractive , I felt I wasn't being a good mom when in reality I was doing everything a mom does . There was times I felt he was not helping me enough but really he was doing the best he can . But sounds like your husband needs to be a little more supportive , Postpartum is really a illness that will go away in time . Just be patient . To help yourself , take a break from ALL let him watch the child or children while you have quiet time to collect yourself !!

Answer 4

well im only 13 but my sister just had her first baby and did not have postpartum dipression but, she has a book on it that explains everything and yes it is normal for women after pregnancies, for instance a woman would become depressed if she were away from her baby too long or if she felt that she could not breast feed easily. if these things or other things i will not mention take place then your husband shuld help you out and hold your hand thruogh it all, because its a hard thing to have a baby and he should understand that and try to help you out as much as possible. good luck to you and your new one.

Answer 5

My sister had postpartim depression and had thoughts of suicide and death. She would break out in crying spirts and often called me and told me to come take the baby, she couldnt do it anymore. It was a horrible thing. She didnt enjoy things she used to such as yoga..and even SEX! It was very difficult. Email me if you need more details or stories.

Answer 6

Women who have a history of mental illness- such as psychosis, often suffer from it after giving birth.
I'm sure you don't have a history of mental illness. If you are being treated for this, then why doesn't your husband show you his full support and understanding? Very mysterious.

Answer 7

I had a bit of it...I cried alot.. and wouldn't leave my baby with anyone..The one time they forced me to leave him with my parents for one evening I cried the whole time...I would cry at the drop of a hat. I was fortunate though...I got over mine reasonably quickly..and with no medication.

Answer 8

i dont know i can help you though if you want but it woud be like you have to tell me why u r or think u r depressed im no doctor but im known to cheer ppl up!
email me

Answer 9

one of my relatives was staying with us after be kicked out of her home. she didn't eat and all she did do was sleep, but as sos as she had her baby she was back to herself

Answer 10

they are down all the time