Why is it so hard for some men not to have their way 100% of the time? When I say equality, I don't mean let women be loose and wild, but just have them be treated like human beings, and let them make a decision or have a say in something once in a while. Why is it such a bother that for once in a while, you can't get your own way? Is it that painful? Haven't you learned to share? It just seems so childish to me.
Please don't get angry and defensive, just be honest. I want to hear this from the male perspective.
2006-06-25 10:18:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry... my guy isn't like that. This question is just based on men in general, based on certain relationships I've heard stories about or observed.
And I'd like some more answers...from men!
2006-06-25 10:45:08 · update #1
Depends on what you mean by controlling. If not liking my girlfriend seeing other guys is considered controlling then YES men are in general controlling. I believe God created men with that innate behavior to control those around us. It obviously didn't work with Eve. Look what mess she got us all into! LOL
2006-06-25 18:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called the "Small man syndrome." You must make men feel insecure, and all ways doughting themselves. We women put up with this and allow it to happen. Men like this allways leave us hurt and drained of energy. Yet we keep them around. They are the men you hate to love.
2006-06-25 10:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't found the right guy who will do that for you. I let me wife pretty much do whatever she wants to do. If she needs my help in something i'm always there to do just that.
2006-06-25 10:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do. I think youre attracted to dating types of men that feel they NEED to be in control...
2006-06-25 10:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kingc99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a Man will only do to You what you allow him to do. If you put your foot down and don't take it he will either shape up or pack up.
2006-06-25 10:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by too_too_juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally hate when a man in always in control, i think it should be 50/50
2006-06-25 10:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ya Gurl Shante 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CAROLYN... I love women. They are awesome. And your right. I don't know why I'm like that.
2006-06-25 10:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by lorenzo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think some of them r that way beacause they think they can advantage us women
well that aint happening
2006-06-25 10:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Always Jolly AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im wit cha on dat one gurl
2006-06-25 10:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋