ok, my hubby says he has a small penis, but i have told him its not, he wants to get a pump, i told him not every man is the same size in that area, we have great sex and i have no complaints. what else could i tell him to make him believe hes just fine.
2006-06-25 10:10:58 · 39 answers · asked by ladyrebel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A lot of men have the Magic Penis. When it’s soft it not very big at all. But when it’s hard it’s like a baseball bat. I know because when I don’t have an erection I am kind of small. When I am fully erect I stand 8 inches. Maybe he thinks he is small because it’s less than grand when he doesn’t have an erection. Personally I find my little man to be an embarrassment when he isn’t standing up. To a man its 90% self image any way. Until he believes in himself, there is very little you can do.
Just A Few Facts To Chew On.
Erect length
Regarding the length of the adult fully erect penis (measured along the top of the penis from the groin to the tip), several studies have been performed. Studies that have relied on self-measurement consistently reported a higher average than those that had staff take the measurements.
•A study published in the September 1996 Journal of Urology concluded that average erect length was 5 inches (12.9 cm). (Measured by staff).[4]
•A UCSF study by Wessells et.al. published in 1996 found an average of 5.1 inches (13.0 cm). (Measured by researchers)
•A study by a Brazilian urologist found an average of 5.7 inches (14.5 cm). (Measured by researchers)
•A German study in 1996 also reported an average of 5.7 inches (14.5 cm). (Measured by researchers)
•A study conducted by LifeStyles Condoms during 2001 Spring Break in Cancún found an average of 5.9 inches (15.0 cm). (Measured by staff)
2006-06-25 10:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by RadicalX 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
I know, I know. "Women Only"
But he should talk with a doctor about the pump or any other method he wants to try...... It is designed to draw blood into the organ with a vacuum, and it can cause some very severe problems, it can damage the blood vessels in the penis, cause blood clots to form that could kill him, or damage it so severely that it has to be surgically removed.
Don't let him do it, there are better and safer ways to improve his self esteem, than that. Find out what the average size is and tell him that his is larger than average, anything.
There are many ways to increase the size of a man's penis, but all are very dangerous, and not worth the possible outcome, (forgive me for that) They can all lead to the loss of sensation, or worse....
2006-06-25 10:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanting to be involved with another man shows your weakness as a Christian or the Devil messing with your mind. It takes a lot more than a penis for a man to earn respect. How would you feel if you were married to a man with a large penis and he beat you all of the time or called you names or belittled you in front of your friends...would you respect him still just because of the size of his penis? A mans penis size has nothing to do with respecting him as a person. You need to get down on your knees and ask God for help if you are a Christian. Something had to attract you to your husband and make you respect him or you would not have married him in the first place. God is the place to go for your answer to this question. be cool...
2016-03-27 04:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Penis Size Tripled
2016-06-28 11:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm not a woman but I thought it might be helpful to get a guys perspective. Your husband isn't abnormal. Most guys have insecurities about either their penis size or their sexual prowes in general. I think what you're doing is fine. Just keep on tenderly encouraging him as you already are. He'll grow more and more secure in your love as time goes by.
2006-06-25 10:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you LIKE little *****, and ask him if he gets his pumped up, would he mind if you get a boy friend with a little penis, and would he mind if you stopped having sex with him because you don't like big ones. Tell him you'll still give him hand jobs, but nothing else.
Men are SO easy to control! I can make them do anything.
2006-06-25 10:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by kimmyisahotbabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would tell him that you have no complaints with him in bed and he is the best lover you have ever had. and there is nothing that he could do to make the sex any better then what it is right now.. and if a pump will make him feel more like a bigger man then let him get one..
he could feel that his manhood is not what it should be and can be imbarassed because of its size.
2006-06-25 19:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a guy, and I have to take a crack at this. It is such a sensitive subject beacause unlike women with small breast which can be ultra sexy a guy with a small package can feel as if he cant make his women happy. Its a good thing he cares and says he want to make you ahppy or happier. I have a large one and I must say I can respect a guy who says he wants to thrill you more.
2006-06-25 10:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by farpointhold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL MEN think they are not big enough. There is nothing you can say or do to convince him otherwise. It's a school gym locker room thing, the "who's the biggest" syndrome. Just be ready for when he's too big and it hurts or he can't be satisfied because you can't take it.
2006-06-25 10:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just assure him that his penis satisfies you, and you don't need anything else to add to your pleasure in bed, however if this is a serious confidence issue for him, and he wants to try out a pump even after yu assure him he is all you need, then suport him through it. He may decide he doesn't need it after all. Good Luck!
2006-06-25 10:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by Heather R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋