he says that i am being clingy, but here is the deal...?

Question

all i asked is when he was coming home last night & he said that he pays half the bills so he will be home when he is ready...he never talks to me like that. so this morning i asked him what that was all about. he said that i am too clingy and i was monitoring him... that really pissed me off ..when i dropped him off at work i told him that i will pick him up when i am ready because i pay the other half of the bills. he started to make a big scene and i just drove off...am i wrong?

Answer 1

LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious. Why is he so defensive? It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it. Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.

Answer 2

That was great!!!!!

First, he's working so he should go out and buy his own car!!! He's a grown man and doesn't need anyone to take care of him by driving him to work!!

Second, if you are 'too clingy' then this is not the relationship for you. I ask my fiancee when he's going to be home and he never has a hard time telling approx. what time or he doesn't know. Besides that, what is he doing that he doesn't want to give you an answer? And men should understand that as woman we have a maternal instinct so when we are asking what time will you be home we are just giving ourselves a basic time line to follow so we know if our men got hurt or something. We just care and that's why we ask.

Again, that was GREAT!!!! Both my fiancee and I laughed our a**s off!!!

Answer 3

I would of done the same thing you did in anger.I think you should both sit down and talk this over and see what kind of results you get.