My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.
2006-06-25 09:35:01 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You do not need advice from a female perspective, for females do not have PENISES. Stop thinking pleasure and think about what he will go through. Your question should have reflected how to best support him. How would you feel if you were having a breast removed and your husband asked men their opinion from a sexual scope only?
It never ceases to amaze me the selfishness we often display, for it is not about YOU!! I had a circumcision when I was 31 years old, and I had absolutely no positive support. The doctor simply left me to nurse myself without any post surgery instructions. There were swelling, blood, and some discomfort.
It is not a simple procedure simply waiting to heal. I had to drain the blood everyday. Your husband will only be able to sleep in certain positions. It is best for him to take the week off. Now that I gave you a little heads up, be more concerned about him rather the pleasure you are to receive.
Uncircumcised men carry bacterias that cause cervical cancer in women. Jewish women have the lowest rate of cervical cancer because Jewish men are circumcised at birth. Your health outlook improves as he makes this decision.
Sexually speaking, nothing chages unless he asks the doctor to lengthen it. The tip end of his gential will be sensitive for months and will be light in color. I recieved a freign benefit, but he might not. Do not I expect it, but I incresed in every area.
2006-06-25 10:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Richard Stapleton 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he isn't having some problem, i don't see why he would want to go through that. i've been with guys both cut and uncut, and for me, sex is better with the foreskin! i think that circumcision makes a penis less sensitive over time, because the tip is always bare. constant stimulation of any area leads to dulling of the senses. circumcision can also lead to scarring and can make a penis crooked at the end, depending on how it heals.
he should give the negative results some serious thought before making such a decision.
this website is particularly about baby circumcision, but most of the points are still relevant:
2006-06-27 11:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by krys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All but one of my lovers have been circumcised, and I wish that weren't the case.
As for your husband, unless he's unwilling to keep clean then I don't think cleanliness is such a huge deal. We are talking about the natural design of a male's genitalia, afterall. The one lover I had who was not circumcised seemed to me to be far more sensitive to touch (in a good way), and making love with him was a lot of fun because of that.
For me it was amazing because the friction of penetration was more subtle; the penis moves within its foreskin, and I liked that a great deal ... in lengthy lovemaking sessions, it seemed to me there was less hassle with regards to stamina on my part because the lubrication issue was greatly lessened.
If my ex-boyfriend had told me that he was going to be circumcised during our relationship, I would have been very disappointed in his decision. Supportive, maybe ... but disappointed, definitely.
2006-06-25 09:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband got circumcised at the age of 32, before the circumcision it was very uncomfortable to have sex because the excess skin would bother him and it would bother me causing me to at times feel irritated because of same., after the circumcision it was great because it was good for both of us, therefore, you should be OK...
2006-06-25 13:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the difference between a circumcised man and an uncircumcised man?
2006-06-25 09:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Poppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is NOT circumcised and I want to laugh whenever I look at it. A circuncised penis is alot nicer looking. As far as sex, I've had both and there is no difference.
2006-06-25 09:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Corina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't feel any different for you, but sex won't feel as good for him. Circumsicion is used in some cultures to deter boys from touching themselves, because it decreases sensation. I'd tell him not to do it. It's a totally useless (unless he's had medical problems and this procedure has been recommended as a solution) and is very very painful.
2006-06-25 10:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been with anyone who has not been uncircumcised. But it will healthier for him and if is converting to being Jewish make sure he has a Mohel (this is a person to do the blessing) there to do the procedure.
2006-06-25 09:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with a man who is and a man who was not circumscised. I think the man can feel sex better and gets more enjoyment and the penis looks better also. I think he should get it done, its a positive change.
2006-06-25 10:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by crazyy4youu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its going to feel any different for you, but it will for him. not just that but its more hygenic for him, and i think that youll be happier the skin isnt there...lol, you can trust me on that one. i personally like it a lot better when they are circumcised.
2006-06-25 09:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by kimberbee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋