Why do you think it occurs?
2006-06-25 08:53:40 · 22 answers · asked by Hibernating Ladybird 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes. Don't worry.... it's something that only lasts a little while. But I am frequently suffering from that "left out" feeling.
You know what I did? I got a job... and I've kept myself busy. Even when you feel alone, having a part-time job of some sort, or a club you belong to, or something kind of gives you this sense of doing something or having worth. Feeling lonely is when you can't connect to others, so try to connect with them and if you still can't, connect with yourself first. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself... it helps a lot.
2006-06-25 08:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by shadowdreamer87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because you feel left out. In groups some people tend to stick well to other people in the group and others just kind of talk to you when you speak up or something. It's hard to explain but if you want to be noticed then talk to everyone and make everyone feel involved in the group, I am sure once you do they will reciprocate that back!! Good Luck!
2006-06-25 15:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,i have felt very lonely in a crowd of my best friends and the reason: it will always change!!! sometimes the reason is because of clothing ,like if you are wearing shorts and they are all wearing capris/pants. Or if u have your hair in a ponytail and they all have theirs down ,so you feel left out!!! sometimes you know a secret about your friend that has hurt your feelings and you arent supposed to tell so you'll feel weird around them. there are many more reasons u feel weird around friends but to solve the weird feeling maybe you should change whats different like u have your hair up and they have it down then to solve it and take your hair down!!! then the weird feeling goes away!!! thats one way to do it and the other way is very simple: just know that everyone is different!!! it's very difficult to "go with it" (as my friend says) but hang in there and GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-06-25 16:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by zacefronluver13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it's very common, You can feel like the 5th wheel in any social setting. If the conversation gets on a topic you don't know much about or if your friends start talking about THEIR mutual friends then it can make you feel a little left behind.
2006-06-25 15:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24/7
2006-06-25 15:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by BetneyJane;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep and it's not too pleasant.
In my case, I am just shy and don't talk much so usually I seem disconnected from the general social flow of the group.
2006-06-25 15:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime we could in the middle of a million other people and still feel lonely. we only need to be with that one special someone to feel complete
2006-06-25 15:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by carline30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that can occur, especially if you`re in a different "pitch" than they are.
2006-06-25 15:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have...lonliness is not contingent on how many people are present. lonliness is a state of mind. I told my husband whom i am seperatred ..i lived with him and was so lonely i was dying inside....find someone to take away that lonlinesss
2006-06-25 15:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by kathy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of my friends are couples and I'm the only single one. I usually try to avoid those situations.
2006-06-25 15:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋