If someone told you they are bi after she is married and all ,what would you think of her?would you think of her any differently?
2006-06-25 08:21:46 · 17 answers · asked by mommyof2 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What does it matter, at the end of the day this woman may like both sexes, but she made her choice to marry a man, period.
So it is up to her what she has or hasn't done in her life.
If you ask because she has said this to you as a means of pulling you then ignore the immoral woman.
2006-06-25 08:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by JennyPenny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that sexual exploration can be healthy. The danger is in keeping it from the spouse.
Assuming she is married to a man, and is interested in women, the husband may very well be interested in exploring it with her. The most important thing is that if she wants to explore, she either get consent to do so alone, or explore with him. She is in a partnership that vows to honour eachother. That may not mean monogomy, but it means she has to respect the bond and be open.
If she is married to a woman, and becomes interested in men... I think this is much more dangerous. A gay woman is much more likely to be uncomfortable with this type of exploration.
In either case... the important thing is that she be honest and communicate her feelings.
Oh, the question was "would you think of her any differently?" Absolutely not.
2006-06-25 15:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by magicpixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't think any differently of them because they would still be the same person they were the day before, I would just have more information about them. If you had a daughter and she told you she was bisexual, would you stop loving her?
2006-06-25 15:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by jada_riab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,first there was gay,gay people had to struggle,we found and began to understand gay,gay is good,....then this(bisexual) what explanation is there for this type of behavior?/ the only thing i can think is that this person can not make up there mind about being gay or doesn't care who they mate with,this kind of person is a result of the"i want it now type society"what next,will i have to accept those who sleep with animals?/you asked i answered,i mean to offend no one,i just do not understand.
2006-06-25 15:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unnatural.
things that are unnatural are an offense to Jehovah, God.
Romans 1:26, 27
26Â That is why God gave them up to disgraceful sexual appetites, for both their females changed the natural use of themselves into one contrary to nature; 27Â and likewise even the males left the natural use of the female and became violently inflamed in their lust toward one another, males with males, working what is obscene and receiving in themselves the full recompense, which was due for their error.
Cor 6:9-10
9Â What! Do YOU not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, 10Â nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom. 11Â And yet that is what some of YOU were. But YOU have been washed clean, but YOU have been sanctified, but YOU have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God.
God, is a god of order, and natural.
these things are unnatural and not from God, so they are from the devil. If you dabble in unnatural practises, you will fall....a long, long way.
Focus: there is one life, death,... then the judgement.
humm......We need to be prepared at all times!
:)
Focus:
read his word....talk to Jah....he will give you order, and remove the confusion.
2006-06-25 15:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by danlaws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouln't think of her any differently. I have a mate who is Bi and she's engaged to be married to her guy. I really don't see what the problem is.
2006-06-25 15:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by anouska1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read somewhere that somewhere in the range of 90-something% of people have a bicurious moment at one time or another. Not everyone is going to act on that, of course. I would probably tell her that she should've gotten that out of her system before she got married because now it could cause problems in her marriage.
2006-06-25 15:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. If I already knew this person, I would have to say that I wouldn't treat them any different, (if they were my friend).
On the other hand, I think it is wrong. God said that "if a man is to marry, it is to a woman, and vise versa. not man with man or woman with woman or anything like that
2006-06-25 15:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that I am a Sociologist I wouldn't think of her differently because from my studies and experience it is quite possible to be bisexual.
2006-06-25 15:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like James B said , ask for a 3sm. I still have not had that experience.
2006-06-25 15:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋