how can i get over my kid's father cheting on me if I have to see him and talk to him all the time. It would have been much easier if I didn't have to deal with him.
2006-06-25 08:12:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u will always have to deal with him he's the kids dad...but leave it at that.. u dont have to communicate unless it has to do with ur kids... focus on them they are ur priority.. time will heal ur wounds and one day it wont even really bother u atleast not hurt.. it happens but u know what ur better than that and will find someone who will be happy with u and only u and not need to look elswhere.....
2006-06-25 08:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not always that easy to get over something like this. Cheating hurts, and you will probably have "bad" feelings about this topic for a long time. Whenever you have to see him, just try to think of other things. I too had this happen and it took me a long time to stop the anger towards the guy. But eventually i think the pain of the situation will go away.
2006-06-25 08:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have had your revenge and don't know it. At least you are beyond him and should be finding someone who can fill More than his shoes. Toy with him and lead him on then reject him that will fire him up. Remember you control things when guys are concerned. Their little willies are quick to come to life if they think something may happen. The let down is great punishment. You could avoid him by having him get the children at a neutral place and drop them off there too. Do not linger on Him but get on with your life..
2006-06-25 08:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to talk to him? just because of the kids? no!! i dont talk to my sons dad, he picks up my son (when he picks him ) I dont drop him off,I have someone else take him, if he calls there is nothing i have to say to him, there is nothing he needsto tell me. leave a message and then if it is important then i will call back, usually itis for something stupid, so i learned not to answert his calls, for what? if he has my son i will answer only if my son is calling (i screeen my calls), there is nothing you have to say to him, drop off the kids and have your mom,sister,friend or whoever do it, if you are going to get over this guy you cant be seeing him all the time. he has what he wants his freedom, now you have the same, dont talk to him and move on, start over, like he did. good luck.
2006-06-25 08:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one ever fully recovers from getting cheated on. It something that stays in the back of your head and heart forever. I have been cheated on three times in a row. I feel like crap most of the time because they are reaccuring thoughts that pop back up, but i still have faith and so should you.
2006-06-25 08:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sonya H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will help you heal. Whether you see him or not, it will still hurt. But as time goes by the pain dulls and you can get past it. Your heart will heal itself with time. Please don't let your distrust carry over into other relationships, though you shouldn't make the same mistakes that you did with your husband........(there are always signs of cheating, we sometimes just choose to ignore them)
2006-06-25 08:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out wit cha girls by going to the movies and clubbing. Go to your homegirls house to drink and chill and play cards. You can even start going out wit other men. Even if they not so cute go cuz they payin and it will take your mind off your ex. I have been cheated on and your homegirls is the best way out of it.
2006-06-25 08:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kristy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there... i have two kids dads that cheated on me.... believe me... time will make you feel better... when you move on with your life and have good things going for you ,you will get over it....but in the mean-time... just remeber...you dont want him and that he dont deserve some-one honest like you.
2006-06-25 08:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋