~Would you be considered an "Airsucking person"....?

Question

~LOL!~ " Just a bit of humor! " But please answer honestly... " Define it too please....... As to what it means to you...... ~Hmm....!~

~ That was my intention...!~ To make you laugh, giggle, smile.!~

~Serious Dude, Mr. Kibbits...!~ Woa!... LOL!~

"OK... No... GROSS 315... Get your head out of the gutter..."

My definition is as fallows... To draw something into your mouth, using your tongue and lips....! Hmmm. Could be good, sounds a little ~KINKY!~

~So I guess it could take someones breath away.....~

Serenity, Word of advice... Your definition of airsucking leads me to believe you are codependant, and need to tread cautiosly... I was feeling a bit drained by the length of your response.. It was meant to be humorus... Best wishes to ya...~

Answer 1

Don't we all suck air? I mean, those of us who are alive...

Don't know what it could mean. Is it supposed to be insulting? It just makes me laugh

Answer 2

ok i got three for ya.1. ever had some kiss you and the suck all the air out of your lungs?air sucker 2.ever been at a party or in a conversation and some shows up and ruins the whole thing just by being there. air sucker. 3.my husband has this horrible habit when he doesnt like something he makes this sound that makes me want to poke him in the eye(just kiddong but it is annoying).air sucker. there ya go have a nice day.

Answer 3

define an air sucking person.
well i suppose it would be someone that speaks a lot, but never says much.
a person that dumps their problems all over you, but never hears yours.
a person that take whatever time you give them, and wastes it.
a person that asks for more than they deserve
a person that expects ppl to give them what the want, when they want it and not question a thing
a person that cannot understand or empathize with anyone Else's problems
a person that puts their petty selfish needs before others.
yeah...that about defines it

Answer 4

I have not heard this expression before reading it just now. It seems this would be something like an emotional vampire. There are many who are emotional vampires; those who suck out all emotion around them, consume others by taking all they can give yet giving nothing back. Like the person who comes to "discuss" mutual problems and will talk and talk about themselves, then when the other interjects a comment finally (as the other catches a breath between onslaughts of words and emotions) s/he just quickly nods or says yeah, and then goes right back to themselves without addressing the others emotions or feelings.

So, no I am not an "airsucking" or "emotional vampire". However, I have met many who are and do not enjoy the encounter. I once did not understand what these people were doing, or how they go into my life. As I grew older and learned many different life lessons, I finally began to comprehend the magnitude of damage these types can create in others lives. So, I now actively engage in disengaging with these types of individuals. I had a sister-in-law once who was very much an emotional vampire or an airsucker. She was a nice person, a very fragile person, very hurt and harmed by life. I really sincerely cared for her and did my best to help her. Yet, while she would whine and cry over how hurt she was she would never take any action to fix the things she needed to stop others from harming her. She just kept placing herself in situation after situation with those who would use and abuse her without ever doing anything to learn new behaviors or how to protect herself and stand up for her basic rights as a human being with feelings and needs. I eventually had to stop all contact with her. She was so draining I would feel exhausted after one of her long drawn out "discussions" of what new hurts she was experiancing. She was making a choice to continue to allow others to treat her so badly by not making a choice to try to learn new skills, or to take action to increase her self esteem. I understand she is a weak person, and a good perosn, but after a while it is important for us to protect ourselves from people like her. When people like this insinuate themselves into out lives we have to extracate ourselves. Otherwise we will continue to be drained after each interaction. This draining takes much of our own streangth and ability to care for oursleves and our spouse and children. I remember feeling so drained I would have to nap and just disconnect from my family for a while just to be able to regroup and regain my feelings of streangth. Whew!! What a drain she was in my life! I am sorry I was not able to get her to take the action she needed to make postitive changes for her life, but we can only advice not make anyone change. They have to want to do that for themselves. If they do not wish to do so we are helpless to offer any real assistance. She began using drugs to mask her pain instead of getting real help. She lost her children to the father (who was one of her abusers) and ended up in jail.

I advice any who has one of these types of people in their lives to take a good long look at wether of not it is in their best interest and the best interest of the family. If it is determined this person is not going to take any action to institute positive change then I would strongly suggest extracating from the relationship. Just begin to put a little space between you, then more as time goes on. How quickly this must be done is really a matter of how damaging this person's presence is. If it is very damaging, then immediant surgery is reccomended. If it is not so horrid yet, try to be as gental as possible. I say be gental as people like this really are the walking wounded. If we don't have to, why wound them unneccassarily? Why become one of the people who have wounded so deeply? There is not a reason to do so unless the damage this person is causing is at a critical mass.

Well, I hope I understood what you meant my an "airsucker". It was not really very clear, but that is Ok. I think this is what you meant. Blessed Be.

Answer 5

uuuhhhhhmmmm, is that a person who does the nasty with a blow-up doll.......?