I have this gf... I really care for her and I used to think that I was in love with her but now I am not sure what to do. We have been dating for 2 and a half months and I just found out that she has a serious lying problem. I had my suspicions but it took me this long to catch her at it. She lied about all sorts of things, she told me she liked heavy metal and would listen to it with me all the time, she also told me that her ex bf when they would have sex never pulled out and they would always be having sex. That makes me feel dirty. When we started dating she was the loosest woman I ever slept with. Even thinking about this stuff enough to type it makes me feel dirty. She used to be a tweaker way before I knew her and she would do stuff like have sex for drugs. Well now we think shes prego and I think its from her ex before we dated. I dont think she cheated though. I am a really nice guy and treat women right. I don't know if I should keep her or not.
2006-06-25 08:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like a saint, marry her before she gets away. Play this at your wedding.
NERF HERDER
"Pantera Fans In Love"
I bleached my hair just like Vince Neil
Then you made me cut it like James Hetfield
We're gonna put an end to alternative rock
We'll find a way to make the Cranberries stop
We went to Sears for pictures at Christmastime
But they wouldn't let us make the metal sign
No they wouldn't let us make the metal sign
I'll bring the wine you bring the bread and cheese
It's hard to eat when you're headbanging
Makin' out in the middle of the pit
How come Slayer doesn't sing about this
If anything comes between you and me
Then heavy metal heaven, that's where we'll meet
We are Pantera fans in love
What's with these punk rock nerds, they can't even sing
I wish we'd never heard of The Offspring
A candlelit dinner, now we're holding hands
I taught you how to draw your first pentagram
We went miniature golfing but we didn't get far
Because we used the clubs to play air guitar
Oh we used the clubs to play air guitar now
I'll bring the wine you bring the bread and cheese
It's hard to eat when you're headbanging
Makin' out in the middle of the pit
How come Slayer doesn't sing about this
If anything comes between you and me
Then heavy metal heaven, that's where we'll meet
We are Pantera fans in love
We are we are Pantera fans in love
We saw Ozzy on our first date
Our special song is Crazy Train
Makin' out in the middle of the pit
How come Slayer doesn't sing about this
If anything comes between you and me
Then heavy metal heaven, that's where we'll meet
We are Metallica fans
We are Megadeth fans
We are Manowar fans in love
We are Pantera fans in love
2006-06-25 08:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by annika emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her! she sound like trouble (tweaker -- bad news buddy! go get checked at the clinic - pronto).
I'd like to think that people can change but if she's been lying a lot then you know she hasn't. It's only been a couple of months so you don't have much time invested. Cut your losses and get out now.
If she is pregnant (with your baby - it only takes once) Then you can still do the right thing but you don't have to stay with her -- just be there for the kid. Why not sue for custody because once a user always a user (even alcoholics call themselves alcoholics after 20 years of sobriety).
2006-06-25 08:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by iamhermansen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite obvious that you should let her go because the clues are right there in the paragraph you have just written: lying. She has a bad case of lying so why are you questioning yourself if you should stay wth her or not? The girl was a tweaker, had sex for drugs, etc and those should be a big turnoff for you. Leave her soon, she's not worth you.
2006-06-25 08:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever instructed her which you enjoyed her yet? If no longer, this may be why you hold dreaming approximately her dumping you. you're uncertain if she feels the same way approximately you. even with the incontrovertible fact that, if the two certainly one of you're already that a procedures into your courting to the place y'all are asserting those incredible words "i like You", then you certainly are apparently insecure approximately some thing. Has she given you any validateable reason(s) which you would be able to experience that she is untrue or purely slipping faraway from you? if so, then you certainly might desire to be the single to pass forward and positioned a halt to the courting. that's no longer healthful which you would be able to pass with the aid of life "fearful" approximately such issues whilst there is a few thing you're able to do approximately it. rigidity and problem reason extra well being problems than you are able to think of. even with the incontrovertible fact that, I purely now study your words returned. i do no longer think of which you have instructed her however the way you experience. i think of you may desire to. that's extra helpful to renowned now rather of in a protracted time if she's quite no longer all that into you. You on no account know----She might desire to experience precisely the same way and what a wondrous feeling that could be. If no longer, then your coronary heart won't harm as undesirable as in case you permit your courting along with her proceed on. that's nonetheless gonna harm, by way of fact i think which you're already in love with this woman.
2016-12-09 01:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get rid of her. If you are having this many doubts already about your relationship, it is only gonna get worse. You have only been together for little over two months and already you are finding things that disturb you. You should move on and find a woman who will treat you good.
2006-06-25 08:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by yellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...why would any girl discuss her past sex life with her current boyfriend? it seems to me that she has bigger problems than lying. drugs for example. if u really love her, then get her help. its going to be a long ride, but it might be worth it. if u don't, well then take the highway. but just the fact that u r thinking about dumping her, shows that you don't really love her.
2006-06-25 08:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by girlnextdoor2000in 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump her you seem like a better guy than what she deserves! Plus you never want your gf/bf to lie it can result in fighting and you want to be able to trust each other and if she lies to you all the time than you cant trust her...hope that helps good luck ;)
2006-06-25 08:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously not the girl for you. She is not yet able to be in a caring responsible adult relationship. She may never be. Next time try to find someone more like yourself. This girl will never make you happy.
2006-06-25 08:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mama C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her, she's going to keep lying to you, and nothing's going to change between you two.
2006-06-25 08:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and get a Hiv test done. Good luck and try not to do this again.
2006-06-25 08:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kristi A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋