what do you do when you know this person has a serious problem and acts agressive when your close them?.And would you forgive a guy if he hits you on purpose hard and says he's really sorry??how can you help a person is like this?.
2006-06-25 07:21:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i can't really beat his *** back he's a 2 years older and taller.I can't hurt him it's to hard
2006-06-25 07:46:15 · update #1
Dump him, immediately. If he's an adult, he's had enough time to learn this behavior and it won't be unlearned.
Believe in yourself enough to realize you deserve someone who won't hurt you at all... settling for anything less is to demean yourself.
2006-06-25 07:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN NOT HELP THIS PERSON. THIS PERSON HAS TO GET HELP FOR HIMSELF. Saying your sorry does not make it right, or erase what he has done. Yes forgive him, but stay away from him. The only reason I say to forgive him, is that he is not worth you having to carry the hurt inside, forgivness helpts that, but get away from him, it will only get worse, trust. He will cry, he will promise, he will beg, but it will happen again, and get worse each time. You should have called the police and had him arrested. No real man would ever strike a woman, you need to tell someone what he has done, an adult--if you choose to stay with him, at least someone will know where to let the police start if --when you turn up missing.
2006-06-25 14:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Noreen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're this concerned then maybe she should consider leaving this relationship behind. If he did that on purpose and you keep pursing a relationship, how is it gonna make you happy if he's just beating on you? Get him to want to get some help and try to get these problems worked out before pursing your relationship any furthur.
2006-06-25 15:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any guy hits you, for whatever reason... he has a serious problem, and you should get away from him as quickly as possible. if you were my daughter, I'd tell you the same thing. "you are better than he is, and you DO NOT deserve to be treated like that"
2006-06-25 15:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by DSTS s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gonna get hurt my freind was in the same situation she was in the hospital with a tumer in her head for a year from an agresive guy hitting her then he pushed her and she landed on a rock , she died a week ago i wouldent go ner that guy if i were you
2006-06-25 16:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***...no guy ever needs to hurt you! GO get help
2006-06-25 15:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by sdbutterfly07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like him and don't wanna break up with him, even tough he hits u...beat hiz ***...that'll teach hiz dumb ***
2006-06-25 14:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree if he hits on you in an agressive way then dump him
2006-06-25 14:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends where you where, how hard he hit you. If it was REALLY BAD, you should not forgive him or as him why he hit you. Just becareful!!!
2006-06-25 17:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by Go Wildcats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump that mother ****** , nobody hits a women and if he did it once he can do it again.
glad to help
2006-06-25 14:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋