I Love her alot and i want to tell her but she will probally think im jellous and i still like her. one of my friends told me that her boyfriend was with another girl at someones house last night and they were in the car together. this dude she goes with is not a good person. he is a bad influence and uses girls all the time. in the past two years he has had sex with around 40 girls. he is like the complete opposite of what she likes. what do i do to let her know i care about her and dont want her to get hurt. b4 all of this even after we broke up we were really good friends and hung out all the time. now since she goes with him it seems like she never wants to do anything anymore and she acts like she wants nothing to do with me. what do i do? i dont want to see her get hurt but all my friends tell me to let her find out the hard way but i dont think anyone deserves that
2006-06-25 07:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know its hard but your the ex your going to have to stay silent and let her find out the hard way as your friends are saying, when she does find out you can offer her your shoulder to cry on
2006-06-25 07:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My God, pull up your pants and show some pride. How the heck do you know how many women this guy has had sex with? Were you with him as a witness to each encounter? As for your girlfriend...face it...you two are done. Instead of spending all your time worrying about this new guy being a bad influence on her why don't you find a reasonably nice girl who wants to be a bad influence on you? Listen to your friends and get on with your life. Let her learn the HARD way because life is full of hard lessons. She might as well start getting used to them now. Who knows..maybe in a few months she'll realize how stupid she was and try to get back together with you. THEN you'll see......how GREAT it is to not give her the time of day yourself. LOL
2006-06-25 14:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she is your ex. Let it go and move on. Trust me I was in a relationship for 5 years and engaged for one of those years. It didn't work out and i was beating myself up over it for over a year after it was over. All you are going to do is put yourself through unnecessary emotional pain by staying around her especially if you still have feelings for her. To be honest with you I think you should leave it alone, let nature run its course. You have no right being up in her business. What if it was the other way around, and she's the one that still had feelings for you and you were dating a girl that made you not want to hang out with your ex? Would you want to her stuff like that from your Ex? I think your best bet is to chalk it up and move on. Don't talk to her, don't hang out with her, and eventually you will stop thinking about her and finally get on with your life. Trust me you will thank me a couple months from now. I had to learn the hard way. You don't have to. And don't hate on the guy, just cuz he's been with 40 girls in 2 years...he just knows how to work his game.
2006-06-25 14:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you still care about her and don't want to see her hurt, and then tell her what you know. Give her the name of the friend that told you her bf was with another girl, so your ex-gf can coraborate what you're telling her. And then drop it. Some people don't want to hear the truth; she may be angry at you. But her anger may be worth it, if you can get through to her. It may not happen right away, but someday, when she finds out the truth for herself, she will appreciate that you had the courage to tell her the truth.
2006-06-25 14:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably not going to have an answer that you like, but there really isn't much you can do. Girls are smart, she knows what she is involved with, and she made that decision. Let it go. Sometimes people need to learn the hard way.
2006-06-25 14:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you get your proof all together and then tell her. If she asks just say that even though you two are not together anymore you still don't want bad things to happen to her.
2006-06-25 14:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wont thanku 4 interfering.. unfortunatley 4 u she either needs 2 c it 4 herself or 4 a close friend 2 tell her., if u interfer she wil just think ur jealous and wont believe u anyway and the only person who wil look bad is u... get a life without her and start enjoyin yourself...
2006-06-25 14:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her openly.provide her with proofs if you can.but remember even if she thinks you are jealous and hurts you take it positively.think that since you love her you have to protect her.give it a try.after all this also if she doesnt understand then move on with your life.all the best.
2006-06-25 14:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you care for her as a friend , but telling her this might make her upset , as she might think your jealous ...you would need actual proof !
2006-06-25 14:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video tape him in the act of cheating.
2006-06-25 14:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋