Been seeing my boyfriend for over a year now. My son has done well so far (he is the more experienced in this situation) They are both quiet...and a bit different. Son is a computer/academic sort and the boyfriend is the work hard/play hard/ cars/tools kind. Just trying to prevent problems. They have just started spending time together. I think that my boyfriend may try too hard at some point and then want to give up.
What can I say to prevent problems?
2006-06-25 06:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You do nothing.
They will find the answers themselves.
Time is the solution.
2006-06-25 06:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find some common ground between them and do some activities they will both enjoy (like watching a game). They don't have to have everything in common but maybe can teach each other things.
2006-06-25 13:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~ â?¥ ~ Annette ~ â?¥ ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I would add to the other answers it to remember your son was there first. He needs to know that you are there for him as well. He needs to feel you are looking out for his best interest and you are always there for him.
Now that does not mean you have to let him be in-charge any more that any other time but time and life is your best friend.
2006-06-25 13:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by dd_otis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find something they both like to do, maybe have them goto a baseball game or Amusement Park.
2006-06-25 13:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my dad and his girl friend was the same way, but he left it up to us to get along, He didnt push us. And now me and his gf are best friends.
2006-06-25 13:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep feeding that kid till he's tired and sex your boyfriend constantly till he's worn out.
2006-06-25 13:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave them to it if you try then you will push them apart rather than together
2006-06-25 13:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋