i am in a long distance relationship, and just last night boyfriend went out to the movies with a female, but he told me about it lthis morning when we talked on the phone. he told me what movie, what time the movie was, and when he got home after i asked him about it. we have been together for a year and a half, and everything has been great. i love him very much. he said they were just friends that he knew how far to take the evening, just to the movies and then home. he said i didn have anything to worry about and that he loved me. should i worry? is he cheating??????????????????????
2006-06-25 06:06:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he was cheating he wouldn't have told you all about the evening. Trust him and don't let your jealousies get to you. You should feel great that you have a boyfriend who can tell you anything. Don't worry so much, if he didn't want you he would tell you. I mean if he didn't want you he wouldn't have never said anything about it at all. Good luck.
2006-06-25 06:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. More than likely he is not cheating. HE told YOU that he went to the movies with a girl. He didn't have to mention a thing. He could have kept quite about the whole thing. How much do you trust him? He said they are just friends, how much do you believe him? So if he had gone to the movies with a guy instead of a girl there would be no question here, would there? You wouldn't be asking if he was cheating because it was with a MALE friend. If he starts to see her more and more then maybe a problem would arise (as their relationship could get more emotional and then physical). If him hanging out with a girl is quite bothersome to you I would probably recommend canning the relationship. If you feel you cannot handle it then why put yourself through it? Maybe you would be able to find someone just as great that is more local to you.
2006-06-25 13:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r worried bout him cheating ask him, the only way u will find out how he feels is talking to him.He may just be lonely and wanted a friend to talk to and hang with...remember u r in a long distance relationship, he could miss seeing u.If talking to him doesn't work or u don't want to talk to him u could ask to go to the movies or something and tell him to bring her along if they flirt u should talk to him but if they just talk and he is way more interested in u then don't worry.Just keep your eyes open for any changes in his attitude towards u.
2006-06-25 13:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by C B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he is cheating. i mean if he is telling you all of that information and you have been with him for so long i really u don't hve anything to worry about. Believe me if he was cheating there would be many ways to tell. I really do think that he loves you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you.
2006-06-25 13:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by gracelindsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely cheating. He's is trying to make you believe that he is honest and nothing is going on by telling you. And why didn't he tell you before he took her out to make sure it was ok with you. Have you met this friend?
2006-06-27 16:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough 1. The other night my boyfriends best mate who is FEMALE stayed over his in his bed with him. I trust him but im questioning that 1 myself
2006-06-25 13:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt seem as if he is cheating, he told you the time of the movie and everything. he seems to be telling the truth. you know your boyfriend better than i do though, so you should choose wether to believe him or not.
2006-06-25 13:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by vanitygurl17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure-he's cheating! Trust me I'm a pro! If he's not a virgin-he's cheating!
2006-06-28 05:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Savannah H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us really know for sure. I think you are just going to have to trust him, and time will tell. Good Luck, and best wishes hun.
2006-06-25 13:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Skycam24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer this question. You know how much your heart can take before it breaks. So you need to do what is best for you.
2006-06-25 13:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋