Why are there so many unhappy and unsatisfied women?

Question

We've tried or understood that Men watch porn and it's normal and we cant do anything about it, We fake orgasms so much that we believe w get orgasms.We are called sluts when we enjoy having sexual freedom we feel ashamed because we had the sexual freedom and used it.Why do we women have to live up to their expectations why do we have to be miss perfect from top to toe ? have you women tried to be just yourself and no one stays because they want more of this or less of that. >I dont think all this would make us into something better.Do you?

Answer 1

You just described why.

Be yourself. Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations of you, whoever they are. Create expectations (goals) for yourself! Live up to them, re-assessing as needed along the way.

Strive to be a caring, purposeful, dedicated individual. Develop your own likes, talents, gifts and character. Like-minded individuals will be drawn to you. Don't waste your time on the other riff-raff just to be with someone.

Trying to live up to other peoples expectations ... be it in life, career, sex, relationship, friendship ... stifles and frustrates. Living up to your own expectations of yourself, in behaviour, goals, life ... sets you free!

Go for it!!

Answer 2

Women are one of God's greatest creations.
You can't fault women for making bad choices. Sometimes they get taken in by men that will say and do anything to get a woman into bed. Once they have scored, there o.k. with it until another woman strikes their passion. All of this is hormones and lust, not love.
A woman should not compromise on her expectations, and if she does, she has only herself to blame.
A common mistake both sexes make is the belief they can change the other,

What you see is what you get! You can change the package, but not the content.
Not all men live for porn. Just the ones that had few opportunities in their lives to enjoy sex. Its a way of cathcing up.
YOU MUST understand, there are two types of liars:
1) A man that says he never masturbated before mariage.
2) A man that says he never masturbated after mariage.

95% of men masturbate, the other 5% are A sexual or paralized,

If your with someone that feels you need to improve yourself, they are right, you need to improve on your next choice of men.

I am a man, and I think most men are a---h----.
There are good men out there. If you did not lower your screens on the hopes of changing them you would improve your chances to find a man that lives for making you happy every single day he takes a breath, and like magic, you will feel the same way.

Answer 3

Well, this probably won't set well with many, many women out there but we are all entitled to our own opinions. Mine? It's a generational thing. Women were much more contented and happy in say, our great-grandparents generation. The men knew what was expected of a man and they did it, and the same was with a woman. We lost that somewhere along the way. I think it came along with more and more women working outside the home and all of us trying to "keep up with the Jones' ". Again, just an opinion, no degree from a college to show why my reasoning is right/wrong.

Answer 4

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I 'experienced' sex for the first time a few years ago, and I never felt 'pressured' to 'fake' it or put up with anything I did not personally agree with. I guess it depends on your 'partner' and the chemistry you have between you. My partner was my best-friend, who became my BF before the act. I'm young, but not naive enough to believe I could ever achieve the lie on which 'perfection' is based. I am first (and for the most part~smiles)HUMAN, with all the emotional / mental / physical needs of any other HUMAN, be they male or female. The female aspect of my life serves a reproductive purpose, so I don't see how it can affect my daily life. If you have having difficulties with being "unhappy and unsatisfied" then maybe you have been with the wrong men? Try dating men who you would not normally be attracted too. You might learn something.~smiles

Answer 5

progressively greater i'm listening to that ladies anybody is very 'unhappy' interior the affairs, relationships or in marriage. i think a definite style of people are unhappy for any style of motives at any time. even however, i think of there's a variety of mob psychology in play the place...'i'm unhappy in my courting' is worried. i'm specific that some relationships must be ended. is it sensible for thousands of hundreds or hundreds of thousands of ladies people to confirm they're 'unhappy' interior the relationships all on the comparable time? it has come to my interest that ladies anybody is leaving adult men, their infants, and different kin at a speedy fee because of the ... i'm unhappy and so on. i'm reminded of modern-day fads, like breast implants, everlasting lipstick, nail salons, faux fingernails, tattooed eye brows, tattoos, spice women, i won't be in a position to think of of all the fads, even however, i've got faith the...'unhappy in my courting' ingredient is affecting too many people on the comparable time in especially much the comparable way. in each courting there will be united statesand downs. on stability, there is, or must be a center factor someplace. i think of what occurs now's the 1st time 2 persons have a combat somebody isn't able to get previous the combat and holds a grudge. additionally, some women people or adult men who're single and lonely, inspire friends to ... 'leave that ______' i won't be in a position to write the notice, it rather is forbidden. in white, hispanic, asian and different communities, i'm specific there are pejoratives to describe individuals in community who're deemed to be unworthy or a discomfort interior the incorrect place. between the excellent issues approximately relationships is that when a guy an woman have a combat or difference of opinion, in some unspecified time interior the destiny you're making up and the courting and love turns into greater perfect. a minimum of thats how maximum relationships have grown for many folk. kin do no longer run on a point user-friendly like railroad tracks. there are various illogical turns, bumps and unknowns. as one woman who's now on my own and lonely after having got here across she advance into 'unhappy in her courting', she misses each and all the failings that ensue with a guy you may call your guy or woman alongside with; undesirable habit, hugs, kisses, feels, grabs, huge bang, and so on.

Answer 6

Both man and woman are responsible for this.
Man - well most of the man reach orgasm sooner than most of the women and once the man achieves it he looses his interest. For time pressure and also for habit most of the man even some women do not like foreplay much so men ejaculates and women watches and sleeps.
From women side they are shy to demand. If men thinks them slu*t - let them think - you should not care much. Most of the women (i think) do not know how they will reach orgasm sooner.

You should know your way and your likings and demand the same act from your partner.

Answer 7

Probably because they stopped thinking about themselves. Sounds like you are putting your man first all the time, tell him to start looking after you for a change and quit faking that orgasm. If he was any kind of a partner, he would be looking after you first.

Answer 8

You don't have to be surely the men have never been perfect and I also believe many of them need to take courses on how pleasure a woman in bed since all they seem to care about is pleasuring themselves.

Answer 9

I say if you know who you are, you shouldnt care what people think about you. Cause i have no reason to be unhappy or unsatisfied, cause i know myself and i love me.

Answer 10

there are so many unhappy and unsatisfied woman because they havent met me or been with me baby