why is my friend that is a girl tellin me business about her sister like she that all her sister friends are gay and that her sister kiss a girl before but she said she didnt like it and she tellin me that. and then says she just into men.
2006-06-25 05:22:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe she is hitting on you?
2006-06-25 05:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your friend is probably between the age of 8 and 14 or so. And your friend is unsure about certain things in life.
She is either trying to get a reaction out of you to see if maybe you would be interested in talking more about it (beating around the bush so-to-speak)... kids do this because they don't want to be embarassed about bringing up the subject if they're interested in it and you are not.. because society has placed such an evil notation on whether we like girls or boys or maybe both. It's not wrong to talk about stuff with your friends. It helps you make decisions about life. I would just react with something like.. well whatever she likes.. that's her deal. instead of.. ewweee that's sick and wrong.
Even if you're a believer in a faith that strongly says being gay is bad... that still has no impact on what another person does or chooses in their life. You need to be open and respectful of other people's decisions as long as they don't effect you. right? :)
or she just wants to brag that she knows everything about everybody and what is going on in everybody elses life. People in general like to show that they "know it all" or have more knowledge than you do about something. It's really common.
2006-07-07 08:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she thought you would like to know. Some people think they have to tell the world their business. If you don't want to hear it, just say, I'm really not interested in what your sister does. It's too personal. Good luck.
2006-06-25 05:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend wants some experience in that department first hand and can only trust a friend suchas u to give her that experience or shes just biosexual or not even that gay its not a bad thing to be that way its just uncomfortable to be around if shes into u well good luck I hope my advice helped.
2006-06-25 05:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's tellin you this to get it off her chest, just listen to it, thats what friends are for, right?
2006-07-08 16:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by apsymp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your friend's sister is exploring her sexuality and your friend is having a tough time with it and needs someone to talk to.
Or maybe she's hitting on you. You should probably ask her.
2006-07-07 19:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she trying to tell she gay or something that how I think of it or she could just trust you alot to not air this dirty laundry at school or any where asks her you'll never know.
2006-07-07 14:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Melody B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's testing the waters - you know, trying to identify your orientation (maybe she's gay or bisexual). When she said she was into men, maybe she said this to deter any suspicion you might of had of her.
2006-07-08 11:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Grace777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, your question is quite confuesing but maybe she really does "like-like" you. She might want to be "more than friends". Sorry I have never expirienced that but I know a lot of people who have.
2006-07-09 01:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by isma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be a little confused and she is looking for some input from a friend and i feel true friends will always tell it how it is no matter what.
2006-06-25 05:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by bigt83074 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend just needs someone to talk to. Be a friend to her, sounds like she's going through alot......let her talk.
2006-07-07 01:47:42 · answer #11 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋