2006-06-25 05:19:40 · 15 answers · asked by crystal a 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well i am sure if you want a baby first off this is a good sign that you are a capable mother.
Second if you have the finacial means to carry the burden of another children then go ahead.
the third thing is that you can't get pregnant alone, Try to locate a sperm doner center near you and see if you can talk to anyone about the procedure of getting pregnant through medical advancements
Fourth thing you should take into consideration you WILL be doing this alone. Take a good time to think about this. If ever your stranded who can you count on to take over your childs well being?
I hope this helps
The Best of luck to you!
2006-06-25 05:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by onaitsebas 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, the clinic idea is certainly a good one. But how long have you wanted another baby? You could try adoption. But thats a lot of work and money. I would hope you would have a good support system of family and friends, that always helps you decide what to do.
What ever you do make sure you weigh all of the consequences, both emotional and material (ie monetary, physcial ect.) Talk about this desicion with someone that you can confide in and that will support you, but also will make you think about the consequenses good and bad.
2006-06-25 12:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bethann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, weigh how old you are. If you are in your mid-20's or later it doesn't pay to postpone childbearing because your fertility begins to decline at age 26.
secondly, adoption is sold by the adoption industry but it doesnt' tell you the truth about adoption: for every family "built" adoption another has been destroyed by it. and adoptees return every day to their real families and even change their names back and get adopted back because infant adoption is a 20th century experiment that has failed and the blood-bond is stronger than anything.
third, you could find a male friend and ask for a "donation" and then use a needleless syringe to fertilize yourself (known as the "turkey baster method"). that way your child won't suffer genetic bewilderment of not knowing where half of their "self" comes from. children were were victims of "anonymous sperm and egg donations" don't feel happy about such. they feel robbed in fact of part of their heritage and self.
there's nothing wrong with wanting a child. it's natural for a woman to want a child, it's part of being a woman and often men or women who haven't borne their own children don't realize that.
Good luck! :)
2006-06-26 01:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by realmomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your longing until you are financially ready or in a good relationship. Some people go through spurts of time when they really want another baby, but a really glad that they thought it through or their partner said not now. I always babysit my friend's kids when I think I want another baby. After about a week of it, I am cured, until a few months later when I have to baby sit all over again. I'm determined not to have another one until my first is at least in Kindergarten (3 yrs old). Keep that in mind to, how old is your child and how will he or she take to having a new addition and having to share their only parent.
2006-06-25 12:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by elliecow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a few answers
1. go to a special doctor and get an egg implanted in you
2. adopt
3. just live life w/o a child
4. search around for another man to come
I hope you can use this info correctly and i wish you the best future possibly :)
2006-06-25 12:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should really see if u can have another baby bcz remember they ain't cheap... My best suggestion would be to wait and see what u really, really want... but then again u don't want your baby to be an only child..
2006-06-25 12:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by banana3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it isn;t the right time. When it is you will know. I think the right time is when you can provide a stable home and the best is with a mom and dad that love each other.
2006-06-25 12:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont need either to have a baby silly girl
2006-06-25 12:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by iammicasa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a boyfriend or do you want your completely own baby?
In the latter case, you might buy some sperm...
2006-06-25 12:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? That first welfare check not cutting it anymore? Yeah the cost of living is going up.
2006-06-25 12:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋