I like this guy at my gym he works there and seems really shy and I am a shy natured person myself, But I want to ask him out . I think I will be heart broken If he does not like me in return. I want to save face because I work out there at least five days a week. I want to strike up some general converstation with him . What should I say I dont want to come off as a freek that just wants to jump his bones but I want to let him know that I am interested in him in a low key way. Just in case he is in a relationship or does not feel the same way about me as I feel about him I can still save face seeing that I still want to workout at this gym five days a week.
2006-06-25 05:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Chellie "D" 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If he's a trainer there, then strike up a conversation with him regarding different workout routines. Then ask him if he would like to go out for a smoothie sometime to talk over more workout stuff (wink wink) and if he does great when you're out and about you can talk about other stuff and get a feel for him.
If he says no, for whatever reason - I don't go out with people from the gym, I have a girlfriend etc... - say "well - we don't need to go out - If you can just set aside some time to show me some more techniques I'd really appreciate it."
That way - you make it seem that the only reason you asked him out was to talk about your workout and you save face.
2006-06-25 05:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by crisagi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would start off by asking him about some different ways of working out. and ask him out for a cup of coffee or something in that nature. and then see how it goes from there. he might tell you that he is in a relationship with someone. and it's serious. if so move on like nothing happened. you can still be friends and work out in the same gym with no hard feelings. as long as your not a stalker.
2006-06-25 05:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could not ask him and then you never have to worry about being rejected.
But getting over rejection is a huge step in life. You should atleast introduce yourself and talk with him. Guys love girls with guts.
Just go up to him, introduce yourself and talk with him, small talk and stuff. Then if you feel comfortable ask him for coffee/dinner/somethin. It is really simple and you will love yourself for getting over the fear.
The worst thing that could happen is you introduce yourself and hes not interested and its really just fine, its definately no biggy.
P.S. Make sure hes not busy like doing a 400lb press.
2006-06-25 06:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh.. I think everyone goes through this.. Personally, i think you should do it..You'll never know if his does if you don't try..Try not to think of the worst..When ever you are ready comfront him..If it doesnt go so well, Dont worry about it..Brush it off and move on..eventually you will find someone for you..If , he is not the guy..I hope this helps see ya.
2006-06-25 05:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had you thought of asking him for help with an exercise? Or a spot? If he does, you can introduce yourself and learn his name. That's a beginning.
If he runs, you may want to grab the treadmill next to him - and introduce yourself that way!
2006-06-25 05:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by aross07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to show you how to work a certain machine, and when he does ask him if he will work out with you on it so you can learn. He will start talking, and you can always ask him if you can take him to a movie that your to afraid to see by yourself.
2006-06-25 05:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by tazzz6413 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y say you go for it if you thing this is the man that you want to be and dont be embaresed you can lose the man of your life and maybe lose others and if he doesnt want put someone to bet him:D and if you want ym availebel :P:))
2006-06-25 05:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by gues who 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out, if he doesn't want to, oh well, no harm done, at least you tried :)
2006-06-25 05:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ya work out with him...try givin him subtle lil flashes of yer goodies...accidentally of course...be sly about it...eventually you'll knob his attention and then you can decide how far ya wanna get with him instead of how far you dream of getting with him
2006-06-25 05:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by spike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it
2006-06-25 08:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Desperate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋