he has no problem in getting an erection when he wants to have intercourse with me but, when we foreplay and I play with his penis or try any other way to please him to try to get him to come he can't get or maintain an erection. Likewise if he tries to masterbate himself he cannot come either. But he does like being massaged and it relaxes him so much that his penis stays unerect.
It is beginning to bother him now, about 18 months ago he had his foreskin removed because it was too tight and uncomfortable when having sex would that have anything to do with this problem now?
2006-06-25 05:03:56 · 22 answers · asked by chris w 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
As men age they can go through something similar to menopause. It is called ANDROPAUSE.
Here is a bit from wikepedia.
Andropause
similar to the female menopause, that can affect men between the ages of 40 and 55. Unlike women, men do not have a clear-cut signpost such as the cessation of menstruation to mark this transition. Both, however, are distinguished by a drop in hormone levels. Estrogen in the female, testosterone in the male. The bodily changes occur very gradually in men and may be accompanied by changes in attitudes and moods, fatigue, a loss of energy, sex drive and physical agility.
Your partner can get nutritional supplements from your local health food store that can increase testosterone in the body. There are options other than prescriptions but it would be wise for him to discuss this matter with his GP.
2006-06-25 05:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a doctor but sounds like he has more of a mental problem than a physical one. Maybe he was taught that foreplay and masterbation were taboo, no matter who does it. I can't really see that getting forskin removed would have anything to do with the problem. Circumscion doesn't usually affect getting an erection. Did he have this problem before getting cut??? or just after???
2006-06-25 12:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by skipped82451 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it like this but maybe he isn't interested in that act itself. I know when I'm with my husband, he is ready but I could care less and I end up causing him problems because I'm dry.
But, since the problem started after the removal of the foreskin, he might want to go back to the Dr. and explain the situation. It could possibly be a mental thing. He may be afraid that it would not be the same now and he may be worried about it and not realize it. That in itself could keep him unable to preform.
Good Luck
2006-06-25 12:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have a connection to his problem but more than likely his problem is common and called.
Impotence or penile dysfunction.
It is treated with Sildenafil citrate. [Viagra]
Part of the physiological process of erection involves the parasympathetic nervous system causing the release of nitric oxide (NO) in the corpus cavernosum of the penis.
The drug is good for this purpose, but be sure he does not fall in the high risk for side effects
2006-06-25 12:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by loligo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say if your foreskin is removed it makes it so you cannot feel as much as you could with your foreskin.Me I was circumsized so I do not know if it is true.Maybe he is just kind of embarrassed maybe?Or it might be like I said earlier.Me myself if I am getting oral sex it feels good to me too but I cannot seem to orgasm during it but I also do not go flacid.So I have the same problem he does somewhat.So he isnt alone
2006-06-25 12:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Førsâkëñ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prob not the foreskin thing, look at the diet and execise part of it. How much alcohol and dope?... if they configure into it.
Men can be strange like that, try some mutual masturbation without touching each other.
2006-06-25 12:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by trash_pony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Him Use Viagra or another ED Drug. You Both will Enjoy the Added Pleasures.
2006-06-25 12:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by thornrez1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is he is having still an erction,but not able to maintain.It may be pschlogical at this age .Counelling may help.If not see a doctor for erectyle dysfunction.
2006-06-26 01:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find his hot spots that helps get him going.My husband's is behind his ears.But if foreplay and you stroking him doesn't help.Then maybe he should check with the doctor on viagra
2006-06-25 12:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by cjmccreery4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should see a doctor- check the prostate.
If all is well, then viagra should be introduced!
2006-06-25 12:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋