2006-06-25 04:42:36 · 8 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, and No.
Ignore first, if you're too emotional at that moment. Because you'll say something you might regret later, and can't mend it.
Deal with it later, rather than fight. Because, in the long run, same problems will come up again. Better communicate and understand.
In a relationship, we see in the other about ourselves. The part of ourselves that we deny most, and we've repressed it.
2006-06-25 04:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its better than fighting.........ignoring is the best thing to do rather than to say hurtfull words and bring stuff out... just take a time to ignore yourselves and then go back to talking like nothing ever happend....that is in case is just one of nobody wins situations more complicated things should be discuss but if its real sereous then is good to go to a marriage counselor...ignoring is for little things like why most you leave the toilet tap up..or why the hell cant you take out the trash" stuff like that you just ignore. good luck.
2006-06-25 04:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you're upset with each other, then talk, resolve it and get it over with. Only if you're immature will you go around mad, and kicking things, or ignoring each other. It's far more better to talk calmly, who ever needs to apologize...they need to do it.......then get back to normal life after it's over with. Also, what's in the past, is in the past......don't let him, or don't you continue to bring up the past....it's very aggrevating, and not fair. have a good day
2006-06-25 05:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's better to talk it out then ignore the problem. This is only making it worse if you hold back.
2006-06-25 05:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! ive tryed that and it dont work. when you turn around to walk away stop, go back put your hand on the back of her head and say somethin good. a simple lite touch gose a long long way.
2006-06-25 04:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to be fighting at all.My partner and I sit down and discuss like adults what is bothering one another.Clear the air and its over and done with.shouting gets you nowhere.
2006-06-25 04:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal, but don't keep doing it. Explain to them why you are mad.
2006-06-25 04:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by citylegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not ok, please talk to your spouse and work things out, and try counseling
2006-06-25 04:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋