He waits till I'm asleep then gets out the bed turns on the web cam and if I wake up and ask what are you doing? Instantly he cuts the computer off! What should I do we argue each time I bring it up!
2006-06-25 04:35:59 · 29 answers · asked by cocoa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he is hiding something or is secretive about something.....then something is amiss and needs to be discussed....cause it is only gonna get worse......could be he is just looking at porn sites.....but you can trace this stuff on your puter and check out where he has been........he should just tell you if he doesnt think it is wrong.......he is feeling guilty about something......if he wont discuss it.....then it aint good......ask him how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
2006-06-25 04:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by harleyblueswoman 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
The computer has broken up over a million marriages by far.
He is more or less having sexual relations with other people over the internet and doesn't want you to know cause it is cheating.
Ditch the bum and move on. Those that are addicted to a computer like that stay addicted until they hit rock bottom. Seen it first hand over 100 times personally.
Run, Run as fast as you can and consider yourself lucky you didn't get pulled down with him.
2006-06-25 04:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really easy one here....tell him that is completely unacceptable, and that since he knows it isn't okay, his continued behavior is a complete lack of respect.
Tell him it stops right now or to not let the door his his *** on the way out the door.
Don't argue. You are right in that he is looking for trouble. It won't get better without a firm stand on your part.
And either way, I'd be backing the car over that webcam.
2006-06-25 04:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of i'm getting this good... she says she loves you, yet she does cyber intercourse with strangers on the information superhighway?? ... on a woman's point of view, i do no longer think of it rather is stable in any respect. whether she does not try this intercourse in man or woman (purely on the information superhighway), yet those shows has a definite result on people. it rather is definitely PORN and she or he's hooked on it. I recommend you confer together with her approximately this brazenly... yet you need to observe your tone of voice. placed across a tone of venture and love, rather than a tone of disgust or judgment. tell her that it rather is bothering you (it rather is bothering you sufficient so which you may submit this concern right here). yet until now that, attempt asking your self first what you want the consequence of your communication to be... and set sparkling targets. confer together with her approximately what's bothering you and why it rather is bothering you; and tell her the way it rather is affecting you in my view. you merely must be greater open to a minimum of one yet another and communicate.. it rather is the only thank you to do it.
2016-10-31 11:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh, sounds lke he is hiding something. You better find out. There is no reason he should be chatting so late, unless he knew someone.
Call a PI if you can. This may be a start of something unpleasant.
2006-06-25 04:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by citylegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its commen sense he's probably messing around or just horny at night and is checking out porn. He could also be on cam jacking off for someone else. He's not cheating on ya~
2006-06-25 04:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by â?¥.·:*WHAt a SHame to LOse WHat U neVEr haDâ?¥.·:* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the cam off the computer see how he reacts. if he gets real upset u know whats going on. be careful, cause you are questioning the trust (basis) of you relationship.
2006-06-25 04:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by wolf1230pack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is "Be as ALERT as can be." BUT, ALSO BE AS DISCRETE AS CAN BE. Remember discretion is, almost always, the better part of valor. You may judiciously take into confidence, some dependable senior family members, who can prove effective, without much ado.
2006-06-25 04:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what he's doing dont try and seem so gullible if anything instead of being on here asking us what to do.why not just get rid of the computer.. im throwing mine out as we speak..there it went right out my window ..wow..it broke into a thousand peices! ..ooops that wasnt my computer...what was i thinking? SEE WHAT YOU MADE ME DO?
2006-06-25 04:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him nicely that you don't like it and why he have to do that in the middle of the night, while you are slepping. ask him what are the things that keep him up in the computer. maybe, try this, if one night you caught him again doing it, don't scold him, go to him silently and tell him that you want to accompany him in whatever he'll be doing in front of the computer, maybe it'll work.
2006-06-25 04:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating. You can check his history and see where he's been. He may be on porn sites or chatting with other women. Don't argue. Just tell him you won't put up with it anymore. It stops or he goes.
2006-06-25 04:41:42 · answer #11 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋