2006-06-25 04:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make female friends. Don't be pushy or needy or seem desperate. I have found that all women are somewhat insecure and respond positively to indifference. Go with the numbers. Be a guy that a woman can feel comfortable around without being constantly dogged. Spend a lot of time listening to them and not talk about yourself.
Here are a couple of tips..... Eye contact. Make eye contact and hold it briefly (longer than a glance but shorter than a stare). If her eyes hold on yours she is probably interested. If she instantly looks away move on, she's not interested...... If a woman knows you have noticed her and she begins to primp or play with her hair it's a good opportunity to strike up a conversation. Again, don't be overwelming or seem desperate and don't try to move on her the first time. Introduce yourself, be interesting, then move on with indifference. The next time you run across her she will feel more comfortable in your presence. I always try to find common ground, build on that, and leave her with something to think about. I will get them interested and then leave them hanging. It's like having to put down a book at an interesting point, you can't wait to get back to it to see where it goes. Good luck!
2006-06-25 04:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Geno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a dating service like Personals or e-harmony. I met my husband there about 4 years ago and we are very happy. You be suprised how many women out there are looking for a guy like you. Be sure if you use the personals service, you are completely honest and know who you are and what you are looking for. Try the dating scene and see how it goes. Don't get infatuated with the first person you go on a date with. You're single again and should explore the posibilities a bit before commiting. Don't act desperate. Be true to yourself and whoa dn what you are. Wear nice clothes and use proper manners on a dinner date. That's always a big turn on. Try to leave sex out of the conversation on the first date. Most girls ( good ones anyway) aren't into that stuff. Good luck and God bless!
2006-06-25 11:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and enjoy life! Try new things...cooking classes, going to the gym, anything where there are other people around. Skip the bar scene altogether...loud noisy crowds are not all that fun when trying to get to know someone. And as far as meeting someone there, not such a good idea either. Alcohol blurs the senses and makes for some pretty bad judgement.
Work on your inner positivity as well, happiness is contagious! It will draw people to you like a magnet!
2006-06-25 12:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and make new friends, do new hobbies ask a women out. you still young have fun with it. being single is not bad.
2006-06-25 13:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just jump in with both feet and go for it!
2006-06-25 20:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by krazzeeass80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-01 16:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Genevieve Gay L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋