2006-06-25 04:17:31 · 10 answers · asked by edralin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He hasn't stopped, he wants to see how much he can fool you so he can go fool around.
When a guy is deciding to cheat or not, there is a line that is crossed of no return. Once you've broken that trust he has nothing to loose. That's why they say "once a cheater always a cheater".
2006-06-25 04:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he'll stop, but has he really? This is not your fault....no matter what anyone says. It is his choice to sleep around. He's the one with the commitment to you, he's the one who said "for better or for worse, until death do us part". So, you're gonna have to make some decisions. First of all, make sure you think things through, never do anything on impulse. Now it may be possible that he has finished this affair.....but what about the next one? You and him need to talk this out honestly. What will you do if you catch him again? Another thing to consider, is it worth you catching some disease from your husband....there is no telling who these other girls are sleeping with. Now the bad thing, is that if you tell him to leave, then you're stuck with the bills at home. If you decide to leave, then you've basically got to start over again. Add children to this and it can become very difficult extremely fast. There is no easy solution to this. Every situation is different. If you suspect him having another affair, and you've had enough, and you have the money, then maybe you could consider hiring a private detective to catch him in photos in the act itself. This will get you a quick divorce, and things will go your way in divorce court, especially if you have a lawyer who specializes in divorce. Never go for a regular lawyer in this. Get one that specializes. Of course these are all options, as I hate the idea of a divorce. But in these days, I'd rather divorce instead of getting a disease transmitted to me sexually that I can't get rid of. Again, think things through....best of luck to you.
2006-06-25 12:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack him once. When he tries to judge you for it...tell him he shouldn't have a problem with it cause you already stopped! Sounds crazy don't it? It's also crazy to think you will not have a problem with his infidelity. You need to get all the cards on the table and let him know the steps he will need to take with you to help you get over this...and yes you need to ask yourself if you can do things differently also, to prevent future infidelities.
2006-06-25 11:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by timothybradley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Cheaters on t.v...they'll find out for you for sure; or hire a private eye, OR you can just trust him and move
ahead. If you find out he lied or does it again..pack your bags girl and start a new life. It's not so hard.
2006-06-25 11:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Optimistic1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this to work you trust him once deserves a chance twice you Begin to question where this is heading and third time his *** is just out and you learn to move on ! Don't be nobodys fool!
2006-06-25 11:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun i say let him go because if he had an affair once he might do it again so let him go no man is worth staying with who cheats on you.
2006-06-25 11:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his azz cuz once a cheater always a cheatertrust me i know from expirence
2006-06-25 11:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by fairy_fantasies_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can follow him, or hire a private detective.
2006-06-25 11:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and brace yourself also try opening comunication with him
2006-06-25 11:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by heromedel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start search why he do this
maybe it's ur fault
2006-06-25 11:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by rikomario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋