i have a friend married and have a beautiful daughter . she loves another guy and she decited to divorce from her husband but he said to her that she will never see her daughter again .
she love both of them her daughter and that guy what is the best soluation to her do she date that guy without her husband known or do she try to forget for her daughter or marry the guy she love ? or what is ur soluation
2006-06-25 03:55:57 · 17 answers · asked by micho 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its not proper to see other guys when a woman is married, as well as guys to see other women. the Vows are great words, and the woman can be sued for at least public scandal or be imprisoned. Worse, If they are found together with that another man having sex, he has a right to kill them both and claim that he blacked out. He can be aquitted. The father has the right to claim the child under the law in this situation that she is seeing another man. It is in the law. Please tell your friend that marriage is not a game that you can go out whenever you want. ILove is not about being happy. Its about responsibility and sacrifice. Im sorry but I think she must not break out of the marriage. I have a lot of friends with separated parents. Im sure you would not like to know their stories.
2006-06-25 04:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by cormac_pendragon 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The husband has no right to tell her she isn't going to see her daughter again--for one thing, it's not true, because it takes the COURT to decide that and courts very rarely give custody to the father over the mother, and even more rarely with no visitation rights for the mother. If she's decided to divorce her husband and this is the only thing she's hesitating about, then she should follow through with the divorce because her husband's just making empty threats to try to trap her back in the marriage.
2006-06-25 11:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by athena1213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe that the husband can remove the child from mom's custody unless he can prove the she is presently unfit. If she is considered "fit" he cannot remove the child, however, I would recommend consulting an attorney before taking action. Additionally, if she goes ahead to cheat, it may be frowned upon in the courts. I recommend holding off on this new guy until things are complete with the courts. If she really wants her daughter, as difficult as it may be to delay her romantic relationship, you really dont want any more conflicts than absolutely necessary.
2006-06-25 11:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by quaqinha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Why would a mother EVER even have the question of chosing anyone over her child?
2) Why would you even get in the middle of this??? Unless your friend is really you.
3) Why is the Wife/Mom being a cheater?
2006-06-25 11:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she stay with her husband and raise her daughter. Or she leaves everything and goes with the other man. Who after 6 months will dump her lying cheating self.
2006-06-25 11:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce! if she divorces him, only the courts can keep her from seeing her daughter. she should divorce and be with who she really wants. if she is afraid he may take the daughter from the mother unlawfully, she should be very watchful and tell the authorities as soon as she suspects that he might take her.
2006-06-25 11:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the husband and forget the guy........she'll loose her entire life if she goes astray....tell her to forget about the guy.....because she will loose alot with him.....she should use her head instead of her heart in this matter...Good luck
2006-06-25 11:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to contact a lawyer. I wouldn't date this man behind the person's back. It will only lead to trouble. You friend has rights in regards to seeing her child.
2006-06-25 11:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can keep a child away from her mother..its against the law..anyway just divorce and file for custody...if she lives in one of those backwards countries then i don't know..kidnap the child and move to America.its really fun here
2006-06-25 11:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves this guy get a divorce and let the judge settle child custody but remember if he cheated with her he will cheat on her
2006-06-25 12:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by dead one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋