2006-06-25 03:45:27 · 25 answers · asked by Trudy K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am a muslim, so just go over there to their house and let them know that you care about their sons death
2006-06-25 03:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 11:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up a Muslim chat room and ask this question or contact a mosque in your area and ask to speak to a leader who might be able to to help you in this area.
Send them a note. If you know and understand their dietary laws, perhaps you can send them a dish of food.
Not all people from the same culture grieve in the same way however I appreciate that you want to reach out to them in their time of need.
Good luck.
2006-06-25 04:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by pamspraises 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is appropriate no matter what the religion to show the family you are thinking of them. I would either go to them at their home if you are that close, or at the very least call and offer your condolences. It would be a nice gesture to make a donation to a charity in their son's name and honor. For example, if he liked animals make a donation to the SPCA or if he was killed by a drunken driver make a donation to MADD. This would be much longer lasting than sending flowers and I am sure they would appreciate your thoughtfulness in remembering their son.
2006-07-05 08:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about what happened. i hope your daughter is fine.
im not very very very sure becuz im not muslim, but im from malaysia and have been around muslims alot. they usual perform the burial the day after the accident. (the day after, or some time close to the day of the death) im not sure about what are the right things to do, but im sure flowers wont go wrong. besides, if you're a non-muslim, im sure they would not mind if you did anything inappropriate. but wear black or white... nothing colourful.
2006-06-25 03:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know religion plays a huge part in the ceremonies after a death... but I believe that we all hurt the same. Showing you care by flowers, a hug, or just being there I believe would be appreciated. Anyone going out of there way... especially if you are not a part of the Muslim community, would suprise them and make them very happy.
2006-07-07 19:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about offending anyones feelings.
Regardless of the religious beliefs, people should accept your genuine sentiments and support.
I give you utmost credit for taking so seriously this matter, but go with your heart. Even saying, "I wasnt sure if this is appropriate" is fine. It shows that you care, that you are sensitive to their grief and beliefs, and ideally that you are there to help if they require it.
That is the right thing to do, and you seem to be a righteous person. Do it.
2006-07-09 03:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They grieve by going to the offending persons house and sawing the heads off everyone who happens to be home.
2006-06-25 03:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by boker_magnum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically the same way. The only different thing we do is read Namaaz-E-Janaza, read the holy Quran, and pray so the spirit won't have any difficulty in separating from its body. Also when going to the funeral, you have to wear black clothes, and make sure that any women going have a scarf to cover their heads.
2006-06-25 03:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, they will go on several process. first the bathing part where if female will bath by female and the other way around. then, there will be the praying part where the male will be at the front and the women will at the back. lastly the bury part. well the non-Muslims are allow to enter the ceremony.
2006-06-25 03:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by bai . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pain n sorrow is all human feelings n they r the same with muslims ,,,,,,,,,,,,
but muslims r allowed grieving for 3 days only, , , , its not that, that they will forget their pain after these 3 days but, u can call it official greiving,, , ,
loud mourning, like weeping loudly, remembring the dead'd deeds or saying words like this as why god did this to the dead , its not allowed, , ,
u can carry on business or ur work , or can fulfill ur contract with someone , during these greiving days, , its not compulsary to shut down every work,,,,,,,,,,,,, what u can do is just console them on their loss
2006-06-25 03:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by fuad_enjoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋