How come it's hard for ladies to befriend other women who's more attractive than them? I am female and average looking and I have trouble befriending women who are more attractive than me. And most of us have this paranoia that they're going to steal our husbands/boyfriends (if you've seen the movie "Malena" you'll know what I'm talking about).
And if you are an attractive woman, do you or don't you have a lot of female friends?
2006-06-25 03:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To that poster named "canuck": I'm looking for constructive answers. I wasn't asking you to be my friend.
2006-06-25 04:07:17 · update #1
I have had friends who are more attractive than I am. What's the big deal? But I wouldn't let any women get too close to my husband. (Do you really think ugly women are more trustworthy with your husband? Do you think a cheating husband can be trusted more with any ugly woman?)
2006-06-25 16:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by percolated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good question.I am 5ft 10,6ft and over with heels.slim with implants,long hair,very attractive.(Im not big headed).I dont have a close friend.people say hi and thats as far as it goes.Im looked upon as predatory women in relationships .i thought once I got in my current relationship of 2 years things would be different.Good looks is like a lonely curse,Id rather be average and have lots of friends.
2006-06-25 10:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would because i don't look at the outside. I befriend ppl with good kind hearts, not what they have.
2006-06-25 10:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by angel_eyes_vanzandt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your man's 'stealable', it doesn't matter how beautiful you are. He either loves you, or he doesn't.
Myself, I befriend women who mirror my values.
Frankly, if my guy wanted to bone my friends--and they allowed it!--I'd boot them all because they didn't value me. And then I'd seriously examine my brain for picking a bunch of hosehead loser friends.
2006-06-25 10:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by abbynormal92243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,but in all reationships,male or female,,there has to be ground rules,,Many can go unspoken,,,,but Yeah,,I see nothing wrong with that
2006-06-25 10:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with your train of thought, i wouldn't be your friend. Geesh grow up already.
2006-06-25 10:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by canuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋