This is kinda a personal question, but i don't know who else to ask..?

Question

okay, i was at a party went to a closset with the guy, i was drunk so everything is kinda blurry, i remember making out with him and then i though he was fingering me but it kinda hurt. later i went to teh bathroom (im a virgin) and saw a little bit of blood. so then i started to worry if i had sex with him. i asked him and he said i cant remember. then 8 days later my boobs feel really sensitive. the next day (today) they still feel really sensitive. i heard that was one of the first signs of pregenancy. so heres the question... 1) do you think i even had sex with him? and 2) what are the first signs of prenancy? i dont know if im worrying over nothing or if i need to take a P. test.... its driving me crazy though!

i am supposed to start my period in about a week, is it too early to get a pregnancy test? is it impossiable to start feeling pregnancy symptons this early?

how likely is it that he broke my hym while fingering me?

Answer 1

Take the pregnancy test its the only way to know for sure

Answer 2

With my oldest, sore breasts was the only symptom I had. With my 2nd I would wake up a couple of times during the night and URGENTLY needed to urinate. Chances are you did have sex with him since there was blood. However, if he was too rough with just his fingers, that too could be a cause. You definitely need to find out as quickly as possible so that you can get started on prenatal care if you are pregnant. You will also need to be tested for any STDs whether pregnant or not. Please let this be a lesson to you that excessive drinking is not a good idea. I don't know how old you are, but based on the statement that you are a virgin indicates that you are pretty young (sad to say, but in this day and age too true). Whatever the pregnancy test, you need to talk to your mother (if you are a minor) and get an appointment with a doctor. Some STDs can lead to infertility - or worse. Good luck. My heart goes out to you.

Answer 3

Sounds like intercourse and yes you can get pregnant the first time. Okay it could be hormonal pre menstral swelling and tenderness as well esspecially if you drink a lot of coffee, caffinated drinks, drink too much alcohol and haven't been getting enough Calcium and magnesuim. It also could be pregnancy. When is your period due? If you are about to start wait a few more days this could be PMS, or if you haven't started yet and are late, get a pregnancy test the over the counter tests can be as accurate as the day of the missed period. Be very careful about drinking and putting yourself in situations like that. I hope you aren't pregnant but if you are there are answers and help out there. You are too precious to put your life and future at risk like this HIV, Herpes, Date Rape etc have happened to too many young women while they are drinking be careful and don't be a statisic. Take a deep breath it's be okay just test if your period has not started.

Answer 4

Take a pregnancy test! Since you are inexperienced, I will be the first to tell you that he probably took your virginity. Not only do you need to take a test, you should go and get a gynological exam. Who knows what else tat boy could have given you. Signs of pregnancy are tender and swollen boobs, sickness at any time of day, being late or not having a usual period.

Answer 5

You most likely had sex with him because the blood when you went into the bathroom was probably your hymen breaking. Some signs are sore bigger boobs, missed period and some other things you can find out if you google first signs of pregnancy. You really should get a pregnancy test.

Answer 6

I'm so sorry this happened to you, but unfortunatly, when we make "adult choices", things happen... You can get a pregnancy test at any Dollar General for less than $5.... The fact that he says "he doesnt remember," kinda scares me. If neither of you can remember, then I would assume, the deed did take place.. and go from there. Your symptyms could also be from your "monthly", but I would get the test.. if its negative and your symptoms are still there, repeat the test a few times in the next few weeks. If its positive, you should really tell your Mom, or other responsible adult. They might be upset initially, but its the mature thing to do. I really hope this all works out for you... Please remember that everytime you drink, or "make out", you do take your future in your hands.. Take care

Answer 7

I think one of you would remember if you had sex. If he was so intoxicated that he can not remember then I doubt he was able to have sex. Sensitive breasts can also be a sign of PMS. I would not be concerned until you are atleast 2 weeks late. You can however take a pregnancy test on the first day of your missed period if it will make you feel better.

Answer 8

1. if neither of you remember having sex, there isn't really a way to tell, so pretend like you didn't
2. some of the first signs of pregnancy are tender breast, morning sickness, cravings, and a general unwell feeling.
3. those are also some of the same signs of a bad period on the way.
Give a few more days, and if it persists, then take a preg test.

Answer 9

Best thing is to go and get a home pregnancy test. Boobs can hurt just before a period as well.
And don't get drunk in the future !

Answer 10

Well if u feel like u r pregnant, then u should take the test, or go to the doctors.(especially if ti's driving u crazy)I'm not sure of the first signs of pregnancy because, I'm not married, so u might just have to ask someone in your family. If not u might just be worrying.

Answer 11

First and foremost, get yourself to a doctor and get checked out, not just for pregnancy but if you had unprotected sex, you may have gotten a disease. He could have broken your hymen, the closing over your vagina, with his finger but he would have had to be fingering you awfully hard. If your breasts are tender it could mean it is getting close to time for your period, is it? After eight days, it is highly unlikely that a pregnancy test is going to show whether you are pregnant or not, a visit to the doctor WILL tell whether you have had sex or not. If there is a Planned Parenthood clinic near you, you can be checked out without your parents knowing or without their permission if you are underage. Please be tested for sexually transmitted diseases, and for your own peace of mind, to see if you actually had intercourse.

May I also suggest that you take a look at how you set yourself up for this? You have control over your body, you have to respect it. Getting drunk and giving it away in a closet is not showing respect for yourself. I'm not trying to make you feel worse, but now you are scared. Please try not to get this drunk again, to the point where you are out of control. You can really put yourself in danger of rape. When you are that drunk, you don't really give consent, do you? In most states, what happened to you is considered rape because you were too drunk to give consent. Please be careful, what if he were a serial killer?

I beg you, get checked out and do it soon, if you were a virgin, you don't suddenly want to be carrying a sexually transmitted disease without knowing it and you certainly don't want to be pregnant. Again, 8 or 9 days is a little early for signs of pregnancy to show up. And early signs vary from woman to woman, breast sensativity is one, nausea is another, but not usually this soon. Perhaps you are ovulating or getting ready to have your period, go get a blood test and a check up to be sure.

Take care of yourself, my friend.