I'm 9 weeks pregnant, I don't want an abortion but my man wants to consider it, we won't do it past 12 week. I know it's up to me in the end, but I just need to know how long is takes to get an app for an abortion.
2006-06-25 02:53:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Do you really want to MURDER another human being for your "MAN" is he really worth it please rethink about this and dont kill your BABY for a man they can be replaced but the deep regret your going to have from killing you child will last long after he is gone
2006-06-25 03:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by rebecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that GOD is telling you to have this baby I also got pregnant on DEPO and having my son was the best thing that i could have done I think that if your wanting this baby you should have it no matter what your man says but in the in it is up to you just remember that it is MURDER no matter how you look at it and it is never the right thing to do unless you have been RAPED or if the baby can harm your well being if you could go to jail for abortion would you still do it and think of the people that cant have kids you can also give the baby up for Adoption well it is your choice to do the right thing so good luck and i hope everything turns out ok for you in the end also remember that it is a baby from the time that you concieve so even if your are 9 weeks or if you are 12 weeks IT IS STILL A BABY .
2006-06-25 06:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go online and type "picture of 8 week pregnant" - go through the sites and you will see just how big your baby is at this stage., I am eight weeks now., it has a brain, liver, hands, feet, just look at the picture and do not go by what I tell you... once you see how your baby is by now, then you determine if you will have the heart to kill him/her... **** happens and if you are pregnant, despite the fact that you were on the depo shot, then it must be because that baby was meant to be here in the world, do not take that chance away from your baby., and I do not understand your boyfriend, if you are good enough to be having sex with, how come that you are not good enough to become his wife and be the mother to his child??? What kind of bs is that???
2006-06-25 13:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it baby. There is a little baby growing inside of you. Do not kill it, please. That little one chose you as God chose you to care for it. Babies are so precious. YOU DON'T want the abortion SO DON'T GET IT!!! He may be a little upset at first but pleeeease protect this sweet innocent precious life! If you were to get an ultrasound right now, you'd hear that little heartbeat and may even see that little baby moving around. Please keep it. Please. Abortion is the most heartbreaking experience you could ever imagine. You can make it. I was a single mom for a long time but I made it and my daughter is a wonderful, intelligent, funny, beautiful person. Not going to answer the question you asked simply because baby IT IS NOT AN OPTION! NOT an option. Abortion is NOT an option. Hope you make the blessed choice.
2006-06-25 03:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the big difference between 9 weeks and 12?
If you dont want it then dont do it...imagine how long you will regret being talked into it by your "man". Tell him to step up like a "man" and accept the responsibilities that come with sex.
There is never a 'right' time...and you will be surprised how much more you will be willing to sacrifice once you are a parent.
Good Luck...Choose well.
2006-06-25 03:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk with "your man" and consider other optons, that baby deserves the right to experience this life as well as anyone else.
i am not trying to preach, just there are other options. I am not sure how long it takes to get an appointment, but I think some states have in a place a 24 hour waiting period after your appointment before you can go through with the procedure.
2006-06-25 02:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only get an abortion if the baby is a threat to your life because by the sounds of it you it isn't a threat to your life.You and your "man" are responsible for this baby and should not have an abortion remember it is your body you chose dont let your "man" chose for you.
2006-06-25 03:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to weigh your options carefully. Then, depending on where you are located, you can get a same day appt. They schedule them in some places when they have a more than one. But mostly you go to your family planning center and they will do it that day. Good luck on your decision.
2006-06-25 03:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by SilverWolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋