I don't know if this is the right place to put this but whatever....
Ok my parents are divorced. My mom and brother know but I really want to tell my Dad. How do I tell him? See I didnt tell my Mom or brother they found out.
Help!
2006-06-25 02:40:32 · 19 answers · asked by Rhia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'M A GIRL
2006-06-25 02:47:43 · update #1
just be honest. your parents will always love you unconditionally because you are their child . they shouldn't think of you differently just because you live your life a different way. telling your dad will be tough but keeping it from him will make it even harder for you . when the time is right ... you will know it. good luck and be proud of yourself.
2006-06-25 02:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by LeAnne H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not tell him. He probably knows. We men have the ability to ignore things we don't want to know. I know that you want to feel accepted for who you are. But you must understand, a father accepts you and loves you as his daughter(child) and would fight Hell's fire with a teaspoon full of sand because you are and always be part of him. It doesn't matter if he approves of your lifestyle, he loves you. I believe approval is a hard thing to gain, it has been for me anyway. I can honestly saythat I have gained my dad's respect, and I'm sure if you think about it there is something your dad respects about you. Good luck
2006-06-25 10:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close are you 2? What reaction do you expect? In my family it's not something we ever had to deal with. But be prepared to get rejected. Some people need time to come to grips with such things. Some NEVER will. Just be honest & hope for the best. Good luck!
2006-06-25 09:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad, I've got good news and bad news. First the good news... you know all that money you've been saving for my wedding? Guess what I won't need it so its yours! Now the bad news... the reason is I'll never get married (to a man at least) because I'm gay! Toodles!
2006-06-25 10:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad probably knows if your mom and brother know. Tell him on the phone, that way he can have time to himself before facing you.
2006-06-25 09:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well only you know what your farther is like
but if u really want him to hear it from you i suggest you ask him over for dinner or go out which ever one you would feel most comfortable with
and maybe after dinner you can tell him then
i think you just need to tell him straight out, and see how you go from their i hope this helps good luck i hope it goes how you want it to
2006-06-25 09:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by kangas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to tell him in person than sit him down and talk about it make sure thats who u want to be if you want to tell him on the phone so he dont get all mad or something in front of you that sit down tell him to sit down and talk about it on the fone okay
good luck with that
hey them might take it well my parents did when my sister told them so just try it okay let me know how that works out for ya thanks bye
2006-06-25 09:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥YOUR BABY GURL LUVS U♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Hey Dad, I'm gay." It's easier said than done, but better than him finding out on his own.
2006-06-25 09:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by C. T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie to him. Say you pashed women. If you do this then you can get away from it. Or just tell the truth, he will understand. P.S tough question there.
2006-06-25 09:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dad. This is my girlfriend (insert her name here.) and then give her a big juicy kiss.
Or...hey Dad. I'm a lesbian!
2006-06-25 09:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋