2006-06-25 02:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by Handsup 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are having an affair, chances are someone is going to get hurt. Unless you are two single people who are having a relationship, then someone is going to get hurt, whether it is the spouse or significant other of the other person, or your own. If there are children involved, they will get hurt as well.
2006-06-25 02:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by katrina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having an affair may seem like nobody is getting hurt, but at some point, it will be found out and the other partner will be very hurt. Plus, it hurts the person having the affair, you just don't realize it until it's too late.
2006-06-25 09:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by GAgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you ask a question like that you are usually trying to find a way to make having an affair right when you know that deep down inside it isn't right. If your significant other found out how would you feel.... really? There is a reason why you want to have an affair, something isn't right in your relationship to begin with. Try to find out what the real problem is and work on that.....and if you have tried and can't resolve the issue, then think about making a change or ending your current relationship. What do you feel......what do your really want?
2006-06-25 10:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by 1artisticrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are symptomatic of a troubled relationship and divert your energy from fixing the problem. If your primary relationship is valuable to you, then affair hurts YOU, even if the other party doesn't find out.
2006-06-25 10:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there is an affair, someone WILL get hurt. If you are cheating or plan to, it may you who gets hurt, IF you have a conscience.
2006-06-25 09:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone always gets hurt in an affair, even if they are not aware of it.
2006-06-25 09:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the brightest crayon in the box if you think that no one gets hurt. People now a days need to get their own lover instead of taking someone else's.
2006-06-25 10:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you think nobody was hurt? if nobody was hurt then neither one of you are in a relationship and if you are then somethng is wrong if the other one doesn't care about it.
someone always gets hurt. maybe you just haven't been caught yet or you would know about hurting.
2006-06-25 09:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by KAREN A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is stealing money from Mom's purse still stealing if she doesn't notice it's gone? Is knocking your neighbor down still assault, if your neighbor doesn't get injured? Is it dirty to wear the same underwear for 2 weeks, if no one else knows? C'mon, you already know the answer to this one. What are you looking for, permission?
2006-06-25 09:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are wrong and someone always get hurt.
2006-06-25 13:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋