2006-06-25 00:37:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have the guts to leave first, before you humiliate someone that way. It's hurtful and how would you feel if you found that out???? Bet you wouldn't feel too good. Besides, what makes you think discreet sex will be better?
2006-06-25 00:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by mcghankathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that!! If your not happy end it. This day and age there is to much disease out there and it's hard to tell what you may bring home. That is not fair for your spouse. Would you want them to do the same and bring you some funky disease back. Not only that someone will find out and then people will be talking about your spouse not you. How could they not know? That is the embarrassment! Be respectful to your spouse...what comes around does go around and it doesn't have to be from your spouse. But if you do this then your spouse will watch you go through what you put them through.
2006-06-25 00:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by brown eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You promised to stay with her for better or for worse. You have some hard work to do and it is not in the bed of another woman. Tell her that you are not happy and then the two of you need to buckle down and get back to the feeling that caused you to commit forever to one another. Forsaking all others means... no discreet sex for you buddy. That would be grounds for divorce for her and you'd then be an adulteror. Don't open Pandora's box, a can of worms, and the trouble of a broken marriage. Devastate her by demanding that she please you NOT by finding someone else...with whom there is no promise of anything but adultery.
2006-06-25 01:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as discreet sex.
There is one very important person, who really matters, who know EVERYTHING that you do!!!
That person is you. If you do the discreet thing, it will only kill your view of yourself.
BE A MAN!!! Work it out with your wife and become the man that she admires. If not, let her go to find the love that she deserves.
2006-06-25 00:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by QuestOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u askin about having discreet sex. if ur unhappy the smart thing would be for you to get that thing they call DIVORCE have u heard of it. Y would u wanna cause ur spouse heartbreak jus move on.
2006-06-25 01:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of making a total shipwreck of your marriage why don't you check out the Making Marriage Work teaching series @ http://www.enduringtruth.org/catalog.asp item # 771776 and discreetly invite your spouse to listen to it with you so that you can strengthen your relationship by learning how to treat and meet each other's needs?
2006-06-25 00:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for an easy way out.. or so you think. Instead of working things out with your spouse, you prefer to cheat on him/her. Such a cowardly action that will no doubt backfire.. I hope that when it does, you are ready to face the consequences..
2006-06-25 00:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by J*LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If you are not happy then leave them. Cheating is never the answer. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Make up your mind as to what you want. You'll just make more trouble for yourself.
2006-06-25 01:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad you can't go down to the drugstore and buy a set of balls, loser! If you wanna cheat, why don't you be a man and tell her how you feel and get a divorce, you worthless puke?
2006-06-25 05:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you work that out with her or end the marriage.But be a man and do the right thing.Remember what comes around goes around.
2006-06-25 00:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋