and they slept together at my place.
Who would find that annoying?
I dont really think its the right thing to do...
2006-06-25 00:23:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and not only that, but he was a total random
2006-06-25 00:27:56 · update #1
I actually find that pretty rude for your friend to do that to you. Did she ever ask if he could come over or to stay the night? Cuz if she just didn't say anything, that's just not a nice thing to do, and it would be pretty annoying. If she does do that again, I say that if she is gonna stay the night, there are no other people that are supposed to be sleeping over besides who you invite.
2006-06-25 00:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I had an apartment a while back , everything in it was mine, including the spare bedroom suite,...I got a room mate, who decided to start doing that. After about the 4th time, I kicked her out because, If I don't know the person, why would I want them in my house where I keep everything of value to me. not only that, but doing a random, is a bad, bad, bad thing....cause you never know what you could get. there are so many std's out there, the only way to stay "safe" is by wrapping each other from head to toe in plastic wrap without cutting holes to breath out of, so there is no bodily contact at all, and no fluid contact. Or just stay abstain from having sex till marriage. I mean really....everyone knows how to help themselves right?....
2006-06-26 03:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by jasondj1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is total dis-respect from your so called friend.
I would speak with her, and explain that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable, and if she chooses to sleep with random men, then she should get her own place.
You are well within your rights to feel annoyed, I would have thrown them out on the evening.
Not forgetting she didn't even ask for your permission, your place, your privacy, your reputation..... NOT a friend.
2006-06-25 00:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by sukimitchell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old u or your mate is so I can only give a general answer im adfraid,
It was not nice of her to do this, its disprespectful and disloyal to your kind friendship as she took advantage of your home. Id personally make her scrub the sheets by hand!
My mate and my partners best mate did this one night when they stayed over, they ended up shaggin on my sofa bed! I was livid! I took it to the tip the next day - (it didnt have any sheets on so the juices where all over!) Gross!!!!! Gross!!!
2006-06-25 00:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find it really annoying, too. Once I was out of town for a few weeks and gave my friend the key to my place...came back and he'd had sex with his boyfriend in MY bed. SAID he thought I would like to come home to a bed with clean sheets on it, but I finally got it out of him how the sheets got dirty in the first place....
Then again, i had sex on the couch in our family's living room while they were all asleep, and we kept that couch for years afterwards. And my brother had sex in the family car in the garage downstairs with his girlfriend once....So I guess maybe I'm being overly sensitive to think I'll have a house where people HAVEN'T had sex.
But I probably just wouldn't want to think about it, and them doing it in front of you so out in the open means you DO have to think about it. I'd be ticked off too.
2006-06-25 00:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, this is clearly something that YOU wouldn't do yourself so why did YOU allow it? It is your place and you make the rules there, don't you? You are clearly strong enough to understand that was entirely wrong but not strong enough to resist it. Yes, your friend needs admonishing ... she has little or no value of friends or possessions. Perhaps she was drunk or on something? Made her act totally irresponsibly? Just learn from this ane make sure she does as well ..... we only learn from our mistakes ....
2006-06-25 02:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find that to be bothersome as well as rude. If she had planned on bringing someone home with her, she should have gone back to his or her place. Knowing that the plan was to stay at YOUR place she should have had more respect. Sounds like you need to lay down the ground rules next time.
2006-06-25 00:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is using you. don't fall for it. the next day dont talk to her but first ask her why she did that without asking and if you think the reason is dumb then forget about her find a new friend there are lots of new friends waiting for you out there. and if she says sorry and you forgive her and she does it again never trust her again and find a new best friend
2006-06-25 01:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is annoying the black guy or her screwing someone in your house?
If its about her doing someone in your house, its kinda rude, most people would ask first, but maybe she was under the impression that she could do it. Especially if it has happened before.
Me personally I don't think there is anything wrong with interracial dating. To each its own!
2006-06-25 00:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flaming cheek! Her morals are her own concern but it is extremely rude to take advantage of your kind generosity by bringing a stranger into you home. He could be violent or rob and trash your home.
Charge her/ him £4.00 for room rent.
2006-06-25 00:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Only Asking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋