2006-06-25 00:17:21 · 15 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey I saw this question earlier, but it seemed too deep for me to answer! hehe
Well, I suppose it's possible. The only time I can see this happening, in my limited experience, is when someone has let me down in the past so much, that it still affects me, and so even though I love that person, I still can't help holding it agaist them. But I have a hard time using the word 'hate'; it's too strong a word. I don't like to 'hate' anyone.
2006-06-25 13:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 21⤊ 10⤋
I have been in a situation where I loved someone so much I hated her. It was crazy, there was something about her that I just could get away from and I hated it. As much as I didnt want to be there I couldnt leave. I think the best way to get over it is talk about it. Let him/her know whats on your mind and see where things go from there...
2006-06-25 07:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my girl, I doubt I will ever hate you!
But seriously now, it does happen.
Think about those things that makes you love this person in the first place. Concentrate on the appealing qualities. Dwell on the shared moments. Times when this person was there for you and the love that binds you together. Remember that you are often in a position to be hated yourself! But you will rather be loved, right?
2006-06-26 07:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a difference between liking and loving someone. What I mean is sometimes you can not like your partner, but you still love them with all your heart. You have to decide if it is really that important. If you can't get over it, then get away from them. Pick your battles. Good luck.
2006-06-25 09:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do.The person we are involved with are the person we are in love with.When somebody hurts us badly in love bond and leaves a scar then we begin hatting them.Becuz we were meant to be loved and not to be hurted.Time is a BIG HEALER.keep urself busy by occupying urself with hobbies and activities and sociolize alot!!!This will keep ur mind fresh and updated,meeting different people will give you the knowledge and experience to know more people and not let urself get hurt if any such person comes ur way.Learn and grow and let bad memories go.Thats life!!!
2006-06-25 08:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never actually hate the one you love. You may be upset or angry but hate is a very small word with big big meaning. let the person know what your upset about and see if they try to change it at least make you comfortable if not its not love on their part
2006-06-25 07:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never hate Jane. I will always love her. I'm not like other guys. I just forget the discouragin things, and move on with life.
2006-06-25 07:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by 지태영 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah cant say i have. Maybe spend more time with him and see if u actually do love him. The work from there i suppose!
2006-06-25 07:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by candy4chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes in time the longer you wait the less you will have that hate feeling I've been there plenty of times.
2006-06-25 08:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love the one i'm with....and if you cant hate the one you love....then hate the one your with
2006-06-25 07:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by being_devided 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never hate,her I get frustrated or pissed off but never hate.
2006-06-25 07:23:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋