We r both divorced with 1 kid each. Dated for 4 months. Everything was going fine. Bought me loads of pressies, he even imported my favourite flowers from abroad! (as they are not available where we live), great sex, kids get along perfect. Then one day while at the beach, (the kids were swimming) he turns around and says he does not like me enough to be in a relationship with me. Why the lies then? Why the presents? Why did he push to have the kids involved? Why the "I miss you" when not together? and the "how lucky I am to be with you" when we were??
2006-06-25 00:01:35 · 13 answers · asked by funstory101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just to emphasize: the relationship lasted ONLY 4 months. He gave me a very pricey present the day BEFORE he finished it off...
2006-06-25 00:16:19 · update #1
dont try to figure it out...thats why you women stay in to long you have to figure it out...any guy that would invove the kids when he doesnt know what he wants is a doosh...dont figure him out ditch him...you dont need that
2006-06-25 00:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by being_devided 2 · 18⤊ 4⤋
Sometimes there are no logical answers to the question "why". People do and say things that make little to no sense. If you spend your time trying to analyze it will only eat at you more. Sure it sucks to wake to having a "bomb" dropped on you, but what's done is done. Thankfully he showed his colors after 4 months. Just my little two cents worth: I never believe it to be a good idea to get the children involved with whomever one is dating until things get "serious". They need to be exposed to as little as possible.
2006-06-25 07:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That bastard probably started seeing someone else and had to end one of the relationships.She was probably prettyer[to him] or has money.Could be a lot reasons but I bet there is another woman in the equasion somewhere. Forget that jerk there are still some men out here that can keep it real.Keep your head up and remember you can have any man you want!!!
2006-06-25 07:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya had the same thing happen to me only it was the other way around i really liked and cared very much for her...Facts are that may be the best thing that happened to you...He probably has some problems you was unaware of or he was dating others as well...If it was meant to be it would be...
Smile be happy hes not your type..
2006-06-25 08:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either shallow, thinks only of himself or pyscho and from the looks of things he's actually a combination of all 3. Better to know this now than after you married him.
2006-06-25 07:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he suffers from multiple personality disorder or maybe he needs a sitter for his kid !Either way he has some serious issues that should be addressed A.S.A.P. Kick his sorry *** to the Curb!!
2006-06-25 07:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by krazzeeass80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating followed by Sex gets u no where.
2006-06-25 07:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Emm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you ran into an ******
Enjoy the presents and be happy that it happened NOW and not when you REALLY were in deep
The worse thing you can do is go back with him, then he KNOWS that he has you wrapped............
2006-06-25 07:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE, YOU SAY SEX WAS GREAT BUT DID HE. THE GIFTS IN THE BEGINNING WERE TO IMPRESS YOU . THATS OVER WITH HE DON'T NEED TO DO THAT ANYMORE. HE WANTS TO MOVE ON IN ''HIS'' LIFE , AND YOU ARE NOT PART OF IT. FORGET ABOUT HIM AND THE NEXT TIME TAKE IT EASY AND SLOW. GOOD LUCK
2006-06-25 07:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he found a ***** he was seeing on the side, and then it got too hard to keep a secret. the sex must have been better with her
2006-06-25 07:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just wanted to show off his money so you will give him sex. Must have been all he wanted.
2006-06-25 07:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by geez53182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋