It's so happened last week. My ex-husband tells me that it was my fault that I gave him a divorce. I was devastated on his statement. He does not realize what he had done. He was into drugs.
2006-06-24 23:42:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him that's his story and you're sticking to it......
2006-06-25 00:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by DR. HARPOâ⢠5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was basically no one's fault. you both went seperate ways during the marriage and even though he was doing drugs and was wrong for it, does not mean it was his fault either. you both grew apartand started to see things in a different light. you both had different dreams and therefore grew apart from there. I believe you had tried to help him get back to where he was before the drugs but were unable to. so relax, it wasn't your fault. Most men will say stuff like that to make you feel totally guilty as if it was your fault. but have to look at it like it was different things that you both wanted, albiet, he wanted drugs and you did not. Hope this helps
2006-06-25 01:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him if he hadn't of f.u.c.k.e.d up there would be no reason for me to divorce him. It's not my fault he's a loser on drugs. I never forced him to take drugs, he chose to act like an idiot and do that himself. And he's lost his damn mind if he thinks I'm sticking with a loser like him and he needs to shut the hell up already and get over it.
2006-06-25 00:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you be devastated by someone who is into drugs? they are very manipulative and it is always someone else's fault for the things that happen in their life. brush it off sweetie and be glad that you did get rid of him.
2006-06-24 23:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a very hard time accepting responsibility for their actions... just like asking for directions! You did nothing wrong dear... you got out of a bad situation.
2006-07-01 03:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to him; You don,t have a clue what your saying "Dope Head" And your time was up a week ago!! He,ll be so confused about what you just said to him that he,ll forget all about blaming you! He should seek help for his "selective" memory problems he seems to be having!!
2006-06-25 00:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by krazzeeass80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go get help, and move on with his life. They have to have someone, but themselves to blame. Don't let it bother you. Go have a happy life without him, you deserve it.
2006-06-25 02:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His fault
2006-06-25 00:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if he was on drugs you did the right thing causeIi dont know if you have kids or not but you if you do they should not be around that .
2006-06-24 23:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by young one1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to make you feel guilty on a right decision...and succeding!!!don't give in to such blaim game.
2006-06-24 23:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by sera_sear21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋