im going out today with my bf .. actually i will c him for the first time 2day( i knew him via internet) .. i am vergin and im soooo afraid.. by the way im 19 years old...
2006-06-24 23:40:33 · 19 answers · asked by rola . 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just enjoy urself ! And Have a nice date ! Good luck to u ! And don't be in a hurry !
2006-06-24 23:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINBOY V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When meeting people off the internet for the first time, you need to take precautions:
1. Meet in a well known public place. If you're travelling to an area you don't know, try to meet in a well known hotel bar e.g. Hilton, Marriott, Travelodge, Days Inn.
2. Tell someone where you're going and who you're meeting. If you are too embarrassed, then write the details down on a piece of paper and leave them somewhere where they can be found.
3. If possible, arrange to make/receive a "check" mobile phone call at a designated time after you meet. Don't worry about offending the other person - genuine people will understand the requirement to do this.
4. Don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to.
5. Don't reveal your home address or personal details until you get to know the person.
2006-06-25 13:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're anxious? Excited?
First thing is to make sure you meet in a public place - the internet hides people. Then you can decide to go on to do whatever you have planned.
As for being a virgin, take a deep breath. Now take another. Still living? Good. You don't have to do anything this first time of meeting. You may choose to and, if you do, you can let him know that you're inexperienced and you want him to take things slow.
Don't get so fretful that you can't enjoy your finally being face to face with him.
I hope he's gentle and understanding and that you have a wonderful time together, today.
2006-06-25 06:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you almost sound desperate.
Chill out sunshine. Look forward to meeting the person. remember you have spoken before now just chat about the way you are feeling it will prob help him to relax and tell you about the way he is feeling. Nice way to start an open and relaxed relationship. Just mention what you were going through in cas conversation. Say it's really nice to finally meet him but you were feeling nervous. Ask him if he wants to head out or stay at home for now and keep speaking honestly from there.
Good luck, you'll be right!
2006-06-25 12:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by trash_pony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I to am 19 and a virgin. There is no big deal in that. You might want to be cautious, He did not have a camera? So he could send you pic's? not every thing has to be done on line. Try to bring one of your other friends as a look out. How old is this other guy, that would make you afraid?
2006-06-25 08:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by caitie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well understand he's not your B/F yet as you havent met him, make sure you meet him in a public place as he maybe a undercover policeman trying to see if you are what you say you are, did you exchange pics? I hope so, just be very careful. good luck anyway he might be your handsome prince, I hope he's not a frog tho. So Buck up and meet him and if hes not what you expect then tell him so and go home and try again, dont lead him on just for sex sake.
2006-06-25 09:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong place to be asking this question. You should really ask yourself if you know this guy well enough to meet him. And if you trust him. I think if you have doubts or concerns about the meeting or what may come of this meeting you might want to reconsider.
2006-06-25 06:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Heather . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kid,
Don't be afraid. *hug* you are going on a date -- presuming that he is the person you believe he is, he is not going to push you into anything you are not ready for. Go on the date, enjoy it, remember you are loved, and see where it leads. Don't do things you don't want to, and if you need someone to talk to, email me.
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-06-25 07:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are given our feelings for a reason. If you are afraid, I would trust my instincts and call off the meeting. Sounds like you don't really know this guy. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.
2006-06-25 07:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be safe, be safe, be safe. Meet in a public place. Don't rush into things. There's plenty of time. Get to know who he is.
2006-06-25 10:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by gmfo22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋