so i have been friends with this girl for like 6 months.we have become pretty good friends.i have started to have feelings for her and she knows that i have feelings for her.i have yet to tell her that but i know for a fact she knows.she has slept in my car,we talk on the phone for hours,we hang out everyday and yet she doesnt say anything.she lately asked a dude for his phone number in front of me and it pissed me off to no end.she knew that and apologized.then at a party we went to she made out with my cousin and is now talking to him.WUT SHOULD I DO?Should i be mad at my cousin since he knew my feelings towards her?should i ever talk to this girl again?
2006-06-24 23:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by soldier 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
beginning of your story sound totally the same as what I went through:) I had really good friend at school and....(same as for you)...... in the end I told her about my feelings towards her and now we've been in relationship for 9 months already.
you know, I think that you have to think through things, you have to be sure that it's what you think it is an not only liking the girl as a friend. then if you're sure, just tell her. ok, you may be jealous when she flirts with guys and stuff, but still you haven't be honest with her about your feelings so you kinda can't blame her. then, if she tells you that she feels the same and wanna be wuth you and after that acts this way, then it's totally different situation. I think this is what you should do - tell her, of course if you know it's THIS kind of feeling and if you really wanna something more than friendship with her.
good luck! :)
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2006-06-24 23:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by bara_no_seido 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man, tell her how you feel. Actually say it and don't assume she knows what is on your mind.
If she is getting other peoples numbers in front of your face, then she may not really be into you as you thought.
Your cousin shouldnt have done what he did. There is an unspoken rule when it comes to that kind of stuff that he disregarded.
2006-06-24 23:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its partly ur fault though she knew u had feeling girls like it when it is told to them on the face and if u ask me this girl doesnt seem like a she cares for u more than a frnd coz she would never had gone with ur cousin .i think just forget abt her u will find someone better than her and i think u should talk to ur cousin but not her for sure and make sure u ask him why he did this.
2006-06-24 23:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by cupid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her you should have made a move. she gave you plenty of chances. you should hurry up if you still like her before it's too late. the reason she did that with the other guys was to see if you would get jealous.
2006-06-24 23:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her about her feelings and give your relationship a name. Ask what she wants, what she thinks of you.
2006-06-24 23:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Newhew or cousin?
2006-06-24 23:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Rex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things go stagnant in short time, she's moving on.
2006-06-24 23:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL
SHE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS
2006-06-24 23:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋