This girlfriend of mine has often invited to join her and her partner for sex. Don't what to do.
2006-06-24 22:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by willybuz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues.
Love! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!
Now, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right?
In the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!
ALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!
Now, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?
It all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...
I might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
2006-06-24 22:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Introducing any type of relationship to poligamy is frought with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundemental principles of that friend relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for any type of relationship. However, all three people have to be brought into it strongly and all three people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-06-25 00:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple....y are u asking the question shows that u r aware that u it's not something right and every religon is against it. So your answer is your question it elf. Just remember that when you are doin something right ,you'll never hv doubts abt doin it. If it's something is not right, you'll ask question like this.
2006-06-24 22:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should have the chance to rail a wildcat once in their lives (both men and women). But you don't love em..marry em..or have kids with em. Keep your emotional distance.
2006-06-24 22:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by claymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to love a lesbain but thats why they don't love me...
2006-06-24 23:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋