not to be disrespectfull, But why do some of you get so disgusted when men look at you, when you dress the way you do. Are only men who meet your criteria allowed to look at you? Do you not realize what you do to a man when you dress that way? I have always tried to be respectfull, but I like the way women look. And I will look at you, especially when youve got a short skirt, or shorts or any manner of form fitting or revealing attire on. why do you look at me as if im some sort of pervert if I watch you? should I turn my head when you go by? Some women enjoy being noticed, and I catch a lot of women looking at me, too. So whats with some of you?
2006-06-24 21:28:13 · 10 answers · asked by Big hands Big feet 7 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I must say, I'm not standing there salivating, or rubbing myself. It is just an appreciative glance, sometimes a long glance... and I try to look into her eyes, that is one of the best parts for me, .not all women respond badly, but some do. maybe theve just been oogled a few times to many, I dont know, i'm not repulsive, so who knows?
2006-06-24 21:54:12 · update #1
Some of you look so good it's literaly painfull, you know ? so I just smile and say hey, but i try to let you know with my eyes how nice you are.
2006-06-24 21:57:55 · update #2
I understand where you are coming from, I just think it is natural--I am happily married but my husband will sometimes do a double-take which I don't take offense too. I mean he is not ogling or anything, heck sometimes I will even comment on a pretty girl...woman berate each other too much and I think your insecure if you can't compliment someone else if they look nice.
I can tell you I have been with my husband for 6 years married for 1 1/2 and he still calls me beautiful after having a child and still make him do a double take...and I will admit when I get dressed up and know I look good I appreciate looks or compliments that are polite and well meaning sometimes it makes my day to know you can still turn a head you know what I mean?
In a relationship it's kinda like a "lookie no touchy" sort of thing because it is just natural to look around I mean for god's sake we would all need blinders otherwise.
I think when some women have a problem with appreciative glances is when the man who looks at them is scuzzy looking, degrading, or just can't catch a clue or other times a lady may have had just a bad day and feels like saying "shove it buddy" but for the most part if I dress in a say a short skirt or a low-cut shirt I expect some attention....I mean really why else dress that way?!
All-in-all I appreciate people who appreciate me in a respectful, friendly manner.
Sorry so long hope you have a good one--JammieG.
2006-06-25 23:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by jaded_illusions78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember their is looking (admiring the beauty of a complete visual pleasure that happens to be a women, smiling with either your eyes or mouth and if eye contact meet nod and respectfully look away and if you must have another peek wait and then try again), gawking (mouth open or pointing and whistling), pedophile staring (looking at someone way to young for you), stalker staring (in a trances) and disrespectful glaring (focusing on body parts way to long and obviously). So ask yourself which one are you doing because most women who dress in the matter you referred to usually enjoy a look or two.
2006-06-25 04:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question......seems reasonable to me and I'm a woman in my mid 40's. I wear short skirts and shorts and feminine things, elegantly and with class, of course. When a man is looking at me, I feel pretty. What is up with some of these other woman? Perhaps is has something to do with the 'ole cat call thing. Good luck with this one!
2006-06-25 04:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, some women are just stupid. I wear sort of revealing clothes, becuase it makes me feel good, i got a good body, so why not show it off a bit, and if guys look at me, well hell, big up to me. some women are just stupid, obviously never had such things explained, if you dont want guys looking at you, wear less revealing clothes.
2006-06-25 04:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kismet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..it depends on the way a guy is looking at u. Appreciative glances and boyish smiles are okay with us.. even quick glances..who minds them?? But i hate men who leer, and who comment vulgar stuff out loud.. it makes me feel threatened.. the kinda look that rapists or gropers give u? that no women like..
2006-06-25 04:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think of it this way... I've never known a woman who objects to a good-looking man checking her out. Do you like it when you catch an ugly chick staring at you? Or does it just make you shiver with digust?
2006-06-25 04:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dress like dat it don't bother me if u look alrite it's ok but i hate old guys lookin at me it freaks me out ive been followed b4 by a group of guys lucky i was wit a group of friends i have always dressed like dat.
2006-06-25 04:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. When women dress like that they do it to be admired by other women....it's competition to them. They get off on being total b1tches about it too.
2006-06-25 04:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur rite if women didntw ant u 2 look at them they shud not flaunt them selfs!
2006-06-25 05:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look all ya like! It don't cost nothin' to look, Baby!
LOL
2006-06-25 04:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋