Why is attraction so clear-cut, or "black and white" for me?

Question

Usually, whenever I talk to a girl or hear her talk and see her act, I know whether or not I like her or not.

Is attraction just a puzzle that fits together perfectly for people? It's weird how I can talk to so many girls, yet completely fall for one every so often within a few minutes because everything just fits together! Sometimes, there are girls who are pretty but their attitude just doesn't do it for me? However, then I will meet one every so often who I think is just unbelieveably right for me! Even girls I haven't seen for years that I liked still drive me wild!

Is it some kind of natural phenomenon that defies time? Is that what they just call "chemistry"? Is there scientific proof that some people are just naturally a perfect fit for one another?

Answer 1

It just means you are very much aware of yourself and therefore of what you want. I think it's a good thing.

Just don't go overboard and become a bit too picky like myself or you'll end up rejecting everybody and not having any personal relationships (as well as possibly contracting a mild form of obsessive compulsive disorder - like myself).

Answer 2

Oh, there are lots of scientific proofs. First, smell. Second, magnetic fields. Third, the position of the planets. All that is connected with chemistry. Or physics. Or even mathematics (when you deal with the planets). And helps tremendously in answering why one person is attracted to another and not to someone else. Do you really need any science when you feel yourself who is right for you and who is not? It's just an unfathomable magic of life. If you are young, just go for it without any external proofs.