what are my rights? as the father. i dont even know where my daughter is at most of the time random people watch her over me.
it kills me that she does this to our daughter but i feel like i cant fight it is there something i can do... if so how do i go about it. all i hear is the mother always wins... and i dont want my daughter growing up without a parent. help me please.
2006-06-24 20:01:49 · 7 answers · asked by Derek C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The mother always wins unless the father is more stable and sues for custody.
My son lives with me by the way.
2006-06-24 20:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem but i have gone through the court system, they call them court facilitators they try to help you and your partner make an agreement and if the judge signs it that makes it a contract between the two of you and if she still refuses you can file a motion to inforce that contract and that will make it bad on her part. In a sense the judge will sidewith the woman but judges are starting to side with the father more, for the fact that there is more stability.The only way to find out is to take her to court and though you may not want to its the only way you can get anything done legally. good luck and i hope you get to see your child again and yes your wright they do need both parents.
2006-06-25 03:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by henry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joint custody, my friend. The courts can decide when you can have visitation rights to your daughter. It really breaks my heart when I hear of a woman using the child as a pawn in the sick relationship game. Nice way to scar a child for life! I commend you for wanting to be a father to your daughter..there are many out there who just aren't man enough to step up to their responsibility. Keep fighting for your rights as her father...some courts don't always side with the mother. Good luck to you!
2006-06-25 07:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a good lawyer and take her to court. Some lawayers offer free consultations. Yes, it costs money but a relationship with your daugher is worth it. The mother usually wins unless you can prove she is "unfit" to take care of her. But that doesn't mean you can't get joint custody. Write everything down she does that you feel is wrong, for example, partying while your daughter is around, drug and alcohol abuse, child neglect, poor living situation, etc. and give it to your lawyer. Good Luck!
2006-06-25 07:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love for your daughter shouldnt stop you from fighting for her...in the end when she gets older she will know her father truly wanted a better life for her, forget whether you will win or lose at the end of the road in your daughters eyes you won and thats where she will feel most secure knowing her father loved her unconditionally always remember that good things take time (even if its years)
2006-06-25 03:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by sapphire.kyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r very vague, i assume u r living together, if u r living together than this situation must not happen. if u r living apart than probably it makes sense to resolve the tussle with ur sposuse...
BE PREPARED TO COMPROMISE FOR YOUR CHILD'S FUTURE
even that do not work sue her to get ur child back and remarry a good girl , who can provide ur baby good care
2006-06-25 03:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by vips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan the next feud, grab the daughter first and show her how it feels.
2006-06-25 10:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋