2006-06-24 19:59:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
since my mum remarried my life has been living hell and her partner keeps hitting me and touching me in wrong places but i feel i cant tell her or my psychiatrist and have resorted to cutting myself
2006-06-24 20:07:32 · update #1
he says its my fault in the first place
2006-06-24 20:20:40 · update #2
Email me @ cierracotton@yahoo.com I will listen to u
2006-06-24 20:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by C aka baby gurl 2 · 5⤊ 4⤋
I'd go to the police and be placed in another family member's home. He is a very, very sick individual trying to minipulate you into thinking that it's your fault...it is NOT your fault. And you just may need another psychiatrist cause this one's not helping. And he is not worth dying over.
What you need to do is get out of there and go to the police. If people say you're lying, over reacting, trying to get attention, or if they believe the stepdad over you...cut them loose don't associate with them.
You can be happy in this life and you can accomplish all that you want, despite how you feel right now, once you go for help you will see that many people care about you and want to help you...give them that opportunity.
I believe you and trust me when I say this, it's not your fault and he is a twisted and sick individual...what he is doing is very, very wrong. Get out before he rapes you or hurts you even more! Go for help now!!
2006-06-24 22:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by SusaJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alleyjanejones, hurting yourself is never the key. I know it may not be easy, but talk to your mom and tell her what's going on. Any good mom would not let her child live in that type of situation. If she doesn't believe you, go to the police. Maybe you can stay with another relative. It should have never happened to begin with. But you've been hurt long enough. You need to talk to someone about this. When the world has you down on your knees, you are in the best position to pray. God will bring you through this. Keep your head up child.
2006-06-24 20:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it ain't ur fault he does that but u do have to tell ur psychiatrist or ur mum i mean don't be scared but u shouldnt have to go through that and hhoney don't cut ur self it is not worth it it is not ur fault and it don't lead to know where if u do that don't be scraed tell someone right away don't let it go on forever just call ur psychiatrist and tell her i know it will be hard but all the trouble will be over truat me
2006-06-25 04:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing, but with my biological dad. I told people and he went to jail for it. Its not your fault at all.
I am also suicidal right now, and have reserved to cutting. But my mom found out, and she keeps saying that she is going to take me to group counceling (because I refuse to one-on-one counceling, and my cousin has the same problem so she could come), but she dont. I dont know why. I think that she thinks Im okay now because I dont cut. But thats because she took my razor.
If you want to talk, I will listen and try my best to help. IM me or email me: evilgal92
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2006-06-24 23:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by UrNightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't cut yourself. If you have a video camera anywhere in your house whenever this happens again hide the video camera wherever you are, and record what is going on. Report this to your mum a/s/a/p afterwards and the police.
2006-06-24 20:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to a therapist? Psychiatrists are often only there to prescribe meds. If you are in serious trouble, there is a national toll-free suicide hotline 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) or 1-800-273-TALK 1-800-273-8255
2006-06-24 20:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by SurferRose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says its' your fault in the 1st place? If its' ANY adult - they should pissoff! It ain't your fault. First and foremost - tell your Dr. , a cop, your school principle, Mom , etc. GET THIS STOPPED ! Unhealthly, unsafe, etc. Be serious, be sure to tell the truth , and get help. You can only get better if you get help in getting this stopped. DO NOT HARM YOURSELF! It ain't the end of the world, you can recover! Don't let them do this, or cause you to.! Please, you ARE worth the effort - its' your life, no-one elses....LIVE IT !
2006-06-24 20:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by cryptic1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really tell someone about it. Tell the psychiatrist and she can help you figure out how to talk to your mom about it. I hope that you can get some help and get that man to leave you alone.
2006-06-24 20:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by guineawuv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your shrink...Nothing is worth dying over any good shrink would never say it's your fault.
2006-06-24 21:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by alonenrestless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋