i love him. problem is i have 3 children and no job ,going to collage and trying to acheive a better life . i want to leave him to be with the one i love but not sure how to do it because husband is a possesive person... seeking advice
2006-06-24 19:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not to be judgmental, but why in the world did you get married when you were only 14? Why did your parents allow you to get married when you were only 14?
Moving on if you want to leave him do you have a place to go to right now?
If possible do it slowly. Like slowly move the things that mean alot to you like family pictures, family momento's etc. and take them to that place. Then get the devorcie going and then get to that place. If you have to get a restraining order put out on him.
Just remember this. Don't stay in the relationship for the kids if any physical, emotional, metal harm is done to you or even to them. GET OUT NOW!
2006-06-24 19:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you have already been sexual with the "other" man, if not I apologize. Either way you are screwed.
If you did, and you leave your husband, the other man may change his mind and let his true colors shine through. He may not be willing to become a step dad to your children.
If you tell your husband, you are still screwed, because if he does not forgive you for for your affair, he will file for divorce on the grounds of adultery , and probably sue you for custody of the kids, since you have no job or other means of supporting yourself.
While I applaud you fro trying to achieve a better life, I can only advise you to take a step back and look at this situation with your head and not your heart and hormones.
2006-06-25 19:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by ladysea8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a real hard situation your in. Dont you wish you could choose the timing of when you meet the love of your life? Maybe take a family member with you and take him to a public place without your children.Tell him you want a divorce there. Safer to do so in public. Maybe he wont freak out so much. Then leave for a few days with the kids give him time to calm down. Dont have much more advice, but good luck to you.
2006-06-25 02:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by vegasgirlimmmhot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only place i know allows .14. year old girls to marry is salt lake city utah. in my opion why would you ever think of doing this it is always the children who get hurt on matters like this my. opion?
2006-06-25 02:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til he's at work. Pack stuff for you and the kids. Then leave with this other guy. If he loves you then he'll help you. Goodluck with your new love.
2006-06-25 03:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a dummy. Call Springer quick
2006-06-25 02:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is it even legal to marry at 14??????
2006-06-25 02:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY OTHER THAN GOOD LUCK;CAUSE YOU ARE GOING TO NEED IT WENT YOU TELL THAT TO YOUR HUSBAND WHO IS VERY POSSESIVE!!!
2006-06-25 02:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by bexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go hon. go!!!
2006-06-25 03:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋