What would you do? What would you feel?
2006-06-24 19:05:51 · 32 answers · asked by lyssa_kpop08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give him a hug, congratulate him for being brave in coming out and not wasting more of your time, then ask him if he wants to help you pick out a new outfit because you are going out to find a new man. I'd feel like I was Grace and he was my Will (from the sitcom Will and Grace).
2006-06-24 19:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Babel Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should get tested, because you can't be too careful. But I'm sure a natural reaction would be to feel guilt. The girl could naturally feel as if she had disappointed the guy so much that he turned to his same gender. If this happens, the girl should realize that he could have had these feelings long before the couple were even an item. Things like this would undoubtedly take a long time for the guy, himself to realize. It does happen, but it is nobody's fault.
2006-06-24 19:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisitive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the questin of what to do should not be hard to answer. I mean him telling you that he is gay is his true feelings. Which you should take to heart that he loves you enough to share something so personal to him. It is apparent that he loves you he just is unable to love you the way that you wanted. You have to accept his news and now go from being a girlfriend so to say to a true girlfriend that can support him as he goes through some rough times trying to be the real person that he is. I will tell you he can be everything in a friend that you have ever wished for. Good luck and remember you didn't turm him gay you were just loving enough for him to feel close enough to you to tell you the true about himself. Please consider it an honor.
2006-06-24 19:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship between a man and a woman is on three planes - emotional, physical and financial. So long as you have compatibility with him on these three counts, you should not worry whether he is gay or not. The question is what benefit you derive from your friendship with him. If you are not deriving any emotional or physicial or financial benefits from your friend, what is idea of continuing such a friendship. You might have heard, a friend in need is a friend indeed.
2006-06-24 19:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by nandi_1950 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That...would be strange. If he confessed to me that he was gay I think I would react in a bit of a harsh way and think that he was only with me just to hide his true identity. I would most likely break up with him but be deeply hurt by the fact of what he did.
2006-06-24 19:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would have to check myself because I am a guy and into women. But hypothetically speaking if I had a boyfriend and I was a GIRL, who he just came out of the closet to, I would have to freak out a bit, maybe ***** slap the idiot and definately make a doctors appointment ASAP. I would feel betrayed and manipulated.
If he is gay why was he dating you and if you had sex together, why?
PEACE
EdE
2006-06-24 19:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by ede1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would say, is you better not have slept with a man then come over and sleep with me. If he did that, get an HIV test NOW. Otherwise, I would be upset that he took so long coming out, and that he used me to figure out who he was, but after that, hell, you just got a new best friend...
2006-06-24 19:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap him for not confessing earlier. You've just wasted a lot of time. I'd get really mad.
You can't change whether he's attracted to men or to women, so I'd just get over it and find some new lovin'.
2006-06-24 19:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't really much you can do but let the relationship go. What you feel? I would imagine you would feel grief, like a death. Treat yourself as if someone you loved died, because they have. The person you loved no longer exists.
I am sorry for your loss.
2006-06-24 19:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be incredibly upset, first of all. I love my boyfriend like crazy and would probably die if I found out that he didn't and couldn't love me, and that he had lied to me about something so important. Of course, we'd break up, and probably continue to be friends, and even though I'd be absolutely crushed, I'd support him 100%.
2006-06-24 19:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋